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To ask if I should worry about this back pain?

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MotherOfRats · 29/06/2020 00:32

Since January this year I've had really bad lower back pain, constantly.

I started noticing that every morning after sleeping & lying still for the night, my lower back right at my tail bone would be incredibly stiff and painful but would gradually loosen up after an hour or two of moving around in the morning. The pain would remain throughout the day but at a tolerable level and would flare back up at night/in the morning.

I phoned the GP after it went on for a couple of months and they said it sounds like sciatica and to keep moving as much as possible and that it'll go away on its own.

It's been another 4 months now and the pain has only gotten worse. It's now at a point where I am in severe pain all day long, not just the night times and mornings. It feels like a constant ache/intense pain in my tail bone area. It keeps me awake at night because it is so painful and there is no way to lie that relieves it.

I am on 60mg of amitriptyline for migraines and I'm now finding that the pain is so severe it wakes me from the deep sleep amitriptyline puts me in.

I'm 28 so feel too young to have this sort of back pain. Has anyone else experienced this? Are there exercises I can do to help it? Not that I can even imagine how I would do any exercises at the moment as just breathing seems to make my back hurt. I even struggle to go to the toilet as the pain is so great I can't relax.


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User8008135 · 29/06/2020 12:38

I was going to ask if you had dv. Did you have pgp at all during it? It can flare up even years postpartum. And have you checked your muscles knitted together after? A gap can put a massive strain on your whole pelvic area especially lower back. My friend still gets it bad now 6 years pp.

Laaalaaaa · 29/06/2020 13:15

It might be a disc problem. I had bad back pain at 31 and was told it was likely sciatica and if it hadn’t got any better within 2 weeks make another appointment and I’d get painkillers. Nothing got better and 2 nights before my appointment my back just went - my husband had to physically pull me off the floor as I couldn’t move. Ended up at A&E where I was given strong pain killers. Following morning i could not get out of bed - I was stuck for 3 hours until my husband got an emergency morphine prescription after a phone consultation with the dr I’d previously seen. I’ve never felt pain like it - childbirth was a breeze compared. The following morning as soon as I stood up to walk a completely different doctor diagnosed me with a slipped disc that he believed to be quite severe.

Within weeks I’d had my MRI and been operated on within NHS - it was that bad.

racheberry · 22/06/2021 22:44

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MichTerry · 23/06/2021 09:26

I think you just need to find a good massage therapist. Or go to the doctor, they know exactly what to do in this situation. Massage for back pain, that's what really helps.

VikaDint · 11/07/2021 11:18

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