Please be kind and not the usual nastiness of AIBU! If you read previous threads you’ll see I’m suffering anxiety so I need to know if this was okay or if my anxiety is making this into an issue:
I’m angry at DH as his parents landed from abroad yesterday. Regarding the 2 week quarantine we decided not to see them. But on the way to park today he sprung on me that we’re seeing his parents but will stay in car so they can see the kids. Just for context I don’t like MIL and see doesn’t like me, we have had many fights in the past as she’s very critical, doesn’t respect boundaries and is a very difficult person to get along with.
We pulled up to the house and she’s saying she’s made breakfast and for us to eat it! (Take away not come into the house - so maybe not that bad?). She then started knocking on the window telling us to open them. Her face was literally cm’s from mine. I didn’t speak to her but she was talking to kids through open window. I’m really angry at DH right now and I know I’m spiralling and wrecking our day out to the park and my kids shouldn’t suffer but I keep replaying it in my mind. I’m also feeling guilty that maybe I should have been a little more polite and spoken more to them. Please tell me your opinions and stop me spiralling out of control