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To let my parents into my house

43 replies

Jossen · 28/06/2020 12:58

Seeing as next weekend it’s officially allowed will 6 days make all the difference? They haven’t been inside since Mother’s Day the day before official lockdown and it’s chucking it down here today so don’t want them stood on my drive getting soaked. My dsis thinks I’m out of order but she would say that seeing as she’s a SP and has been able to have our DP in her house for the last couple of weeks. AIBU?

OP posts:
yellowsubmarines · 28/06/2020 14:54

None of my neighbours have followed the lockdown. They've all had people coming and going inside their houses as normal from March. It's been interesting reading these threads were some people follow the rules to the dot and others completely flout them and do whatever they want. I guess that's life. Not sure why you're coming on here OP you either follow the current rules or you don't.

wowbutter · 28/06/2020 14:56

Why not?
The rules are utter crap.
You can travel to barnyard castle for an eye test and childcare emergencies. Why not have your mum inside? 🤷‍♀️

JaniceWebster · 28/06/2020 15:01

Meanwhile in the real world....

Leicester is threatened by a lockdown, but hey ho...

ZaZathecat · 28/06/2020 15:06

It won't make it any safer next week, or less safe this week, just because the government says so, but according to gov.uk:

"1.5 What is a criminal offence?

It is a criminal offence to:

meet indoors with anyone who is not a member of your household or, from 13 June, your support bubble, except for specific exceptions set out in law"

So if that worries you, don't do it.

BlueJava · 28/06/2020 15:09

Given the amount of marches, protests and raves, it wouldn't worry me at all to have my parents in.

chocolatesaltyballs22 · 28/06/2020 15:09

Eh? It's allowed now isn't it? My mum has just been to ours.

ListeningQuietly · 28/06/2020 15:12

Put up an eye test chart and it will be fine Grin

TerrapinStation · 28/06/2020 15:12

@chocolatesaltyballs22

Eh? It's allowed now isn't it? My mum has just been to ours.
If you Mum is in a single adult household in England, yes, but the OP says parents so presumably bubbles don't apply.
nannyplumsmagranny · 28/06/2020 15:58

My parents have been in mine.

Subeccoo · 28/06/2020 16:01

Im travelling 2 hours 2 days early to London this week to stay with family, I hope they let me in!!

Averyyounggrandmaofsix · 28/06/2020 17:02

Surely the risk will be higher next week after people start mixing more.

ListeningQuietly · 28/06/2020 17:05

Surely the risk will be higher next week after people start mixing more.
More than what ?

Half a million people on Bournemouth beach from as far afield as Newcastle last week .....

People are mixing in HUGE numbers already

testing their eyes I presume

IAintentDead · 28/06/2020 17:05

@WhatWouldDominicDo

I get what you’re saying but will any of us be less of a risk in 6 days time?

I would assume yes, and that's why they didn't make the change effective from an earlier date.

Well Dominic would let them in I'm sure
TheGreatWave · 28/06/2020 17:57

What a time to be alive, when it is illegal to visit someone at home. Hmm

Let them in OP, life is far too short for this appalling stamping all over our liberties

JaniceWebster · 28/06/2020 18:11

life is far too short for this appalling stamping all over our liberties
Hmm

I wish people could stop being so childish about it, you are not being scolded, there's an actual pandemic out there.

ListeningQuietly · 28/06/2020 18:13

I wish people could stop being so childish about it, you are not being scolded, there's an actual pandemic out there.
10,000 people in the UK die every week pandemic or no pandemic.
Life is for living

JaniceWebster · 28/06/2020 18:20

10,000 people in the UK die every week pandemic or no pandemic.

so what? Shall we just close all hospital and health care system and not bother with anything as people die anyway? Would save a fair amount on taxes which I would happily spend on my next holiday

ListeningQuietly · 28/06/2020 18:29

Sensible precautions are one thing

  • do not visit if ill
  • wash hands
  • do not share food
But as none of the predicted peaks have yet happened the disease is clearly low risk to the young and mobile

the older and frailer should have been properly protected by

  • quarantining
  • test track and trace
but they were not
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