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Do you remember your first day at school? Or first year?

114 replies

GimmeAy · 22/06/2020 22:18

I just seem to have been reading a lot of school based threads this evening, so this popped into my head.

I don't remember the first day, but I remember the night before.
I remember cornflakes boxes and a sand box and drawing houses and Mrs X correcting our copies and her glasses and the red pen.
But I don't remember my first day at school.

My only long term ex, lived about 300 yards from his school. On his first day, he escaped and ran home to his Mum. The Head teacher came high tailing it after him and he was lured back.

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Iwalkinmyclothing · 22/06/2020 23:44

I remember moments from my first year. Really strong memories of school milk, gorgeous in cold weather and horrible in warm. The reading scheme was the village with three corners. I don't remember the first day or any particular days but I really liked school and remember odd things like the different coloured toilet doors and thinking it said "Chubb" on the locks because that was the head teacher's surname.

Smallsteps88 · 22/06/2020 23:44

Some really mean teachers in these stories! Sad ripping up work and poking children in the chest!

I do remember my P1 teacher smacking a boys back side because he was climbing on the gate but otherwise she was nice and he wasn’t a bit bothered Grin I dated him years later and he really was a naughty boy!

tootiredtothinkofanewname · 22/06/2020 23:47

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Simonfromharlow · 22/06/2020 23:47

My first day at senior school someone called in a bomb threat. That was nice and terrifying!

Grandmi · 22/06/2020 23:51

My first day at school was at a convent. My teacher was Sister Catherine and she was lovely. Every day at 2pm we all had a sleep in sleeping bags ...I felt so safe 💕

Scarby9 · 22/06/2020 23:55

I remember pedalling on wheeled toys under the big children's dining tables while the dinner ladies were setting up for dinner; lying on mats for a rest after lunch - girls with a pink blanket and boys with blue; doing writing and sums on pieces of wallpaper - difficult on embossed paper; taking things in for the nature table; the headmaster swinging us round by our arms before school, and Mrs Griffiths drying her large bloomers on the radiator in class 2. This was the 60s - most of us didn't have central heating at home then.

Grandmi · 22/06/2020 23:56

tootiredtothink...old English Sheepdogs are the most amazing doggies. We had them when we were children and our dog was one of the Dulux dogs 🐾🐾

EmeraldShamrock · 23/06/2020 00:03

I had a teacher when I was about 9 he often sent 2 of us on a shop run to get him Alka-Seltzer.
He stank every day.

AdaColeman · 23/06/2020 00:12

Yes, I can remember starting school. The school was in a converted house, with much of the garden still intact, including a large pond with stepping stones and a huge weeping willow tree.

I’d looked forward to going to school, but was a bit disappointed once I got there. I could read already, but learning the alphabet and reading was the focus of the class. So I spent a lot of time at the back of the exceedingly slow moving reading queue.
This was before sand & water play had been invented, we sat in rows and behaved ourselves. The lunches weren’t very nice either.

After a couple of days, when I met my Mother at the gate, I told her that I’d given school a try, and didn’t like it, so I wouldn’t be going back.
How wrong I was! Smile

Osirus · 23/06/2020 00:25

Yep.

I remember being incredibly excited and then crying my eyes out when my dad left me there. I’d never been to preschool. I remember the big toy kitchen. I remember who I was friends with and then fell out with as she had bad breath! I was only there for two weeks, as they then moved me up to year 1, as I had been held back a year. Because of this, I went through all my school years feeling like I didn’t fit in - those holding children back a year take note!

I remember all my teachers’ names for every year of school. I remember being in every year.

I also have photos of my first day at school, before I left and when I got back home, with my first painting! This was in 1987.

Winniewonka · 23/06/2020 00:34

I started primary school in 1960! In one way it was far more enlightened than today. There were two intakes per year, children were 'Rising Fives' meaning you started school either in September or around Easter time depending on your birthday which in my opinion is much better than having a child who's only just four in August having to cope alongside a child who would be five in September.
Learning was much more formal. Sitting at tables facing the teacher but we still had a Wendy house, dressing up box etc.
Health and Safety barely acknowledged, we had open coal fires (there was a fire guard in place). There was a free standing blackboard and behind it, adjacent to the wall was a camp bed where if you were feeling unwell, you had to lie on it. As far as I can remember, parents weren't sent to collect you but lots of children went home for lunch so probably stayed off for the rest of the day.
Regardless of the weather we were never allowed in school at break or lunchtime. Boys wore caps and girls had hats, almost everyone wore a gaberdine coat.
I could witter on for ages....

ArthurandJessie · 23/06/2020 02:23

Yes ! I remember my first day because it was my birthday and my first tooth fell out and it all felt rather eventful 😅

unstableunicorn · 23/06/2020 02:32

Yep, bit depressing since I mainly remember trying to play fairies and princesses with a couple of girls who told me I couldn't be either because I was brown and wearing trousers, before getting rescued by my another fairy outcast who dragged me off to play pirates with the lads. Was determined never to go back! (Obviously I did and rescuer girl became one of my closest and oldest friend to this day so there's a happy ending )

Bloodybridget · 23/06/2020 02:39

Yes, it was the start of the summer term, a few weeks before my fifth birthday. I didn't yet have the uniform blue gingham dress so I was wearing my red gingham. I was very excited to be starting school, had been envying my older brother. My mum took me to the classroom - it was a convent school and my teacher was a nun, wearing the full length black habit with a big white guimpe. There were tables set out with fat wax crayons in old coffee tins, and big sheets of grey sugar paper. I sat down confidently, took a crayon and started my formal education! This was 1959.

Snaleandthewhail · 23/06/2020 02:39

I was only at my first school for a few weeks before I moved house, and also had chicken pox in that period. I have a couple of impressions of that school - eating lunch. Taste of ham sandwiches stored in a box with a banana, still something which makes me gag. A vague smell of school dinners.

I remember looking at my new school, but the classrooms were empty. It might have been out of hours or the children were all outside. Smell of the detergent. A few impressions of that class (but I was only in for a few weeks - I started there mid June). The same teacher had us in what we’d now call year 1 and I have more memories from there.

We moved again for junior school. I vividly remember waiting in the classroom for all the class to arrive as I’d come in early to “settle”. Imagine if you will a girl with a Somerset accent settling into a northern school with a very distinct accent. It didn’t go very well...

Toddlerteaplease · 23/06/2020 02:47

I don't remember my first day, but I remember the taster day really well.

earthyfire · 23/06/2020 02:53

I remember starting nursery, sitting on the carpet and also standing by my name peg. I also being in reception and learning to write, I had a pencil grip and I can still remember the odd plastic smell. I remember crying on my first day of reception because I thought my school dress was too long and my teacher trying to reassure me it was fine. I only remember my induction day at secondary school but not the actual first day. I wish I had my primary school reports, I have such fond memories but I don't have a single school report to look back on.

EmperorCovidula · 23/06/2020 02:55

No, I barely even remember my kids first day. I think I may just have a poor memory.

JudgeRindersMinder · 23/06/2020 03:02

I just remember being in the playground before we went in, and my pal from playgroup having to be carried in by his teacher as he was hysterical!
He’s now a very well respected head teacher of a primary school so it didn’t scar him too badly [grin{

k1233 · 23/06/2020 03:44

I despised preschool - could not see the point. Grade 1 I loved as I got to learn stuff. My preschool / grade one teacher would dye her fringe really regularly - lots of different colours like red, blue, green, yellow. One day she had a rainbow fringe and I thought it was because she'd had a haircut and you could see all the other colours she'd had before LOL She used to read to us after lunch and I remember a big red hardcover Blinky Bill book that she read for ages.

I also remember running into a big cement post and getting a huge egg on my head LOL

lilmishap · 23/06/2020 04:06

I remember being taken around the school while in the nursery (taster day?) I do remember thinking "We're not going to fit all these classrooms into the nursery"
Then an awful moment in the playground that may have been first day, being told at break-time I couldn't go across the car park to the nursery block.
It was awful

BikeRunSki · 23/06/2020 04:23

Yes, I was very late- a couple of hours or more because my younger sister has swallowed some painkillers and we had to go to school by A&e.

Giggorata · 23/06/2020 04:51

I remember going into what was called the Infants on my first day at school. The classroom had its own entrance from the playground, as well as connecting with the rest of the school, so all the newbies were isolated from the rest until they got used to it. The teacher was called Mrs Reeve and she had curly hair, glasses and looked like an old lady.

I remember sitting down at a table and putting my brand new stiff leather satchel down on the chair next to me, so no one else could sit there. Then I watched everything.
Many of the kids were crying. There were two girls that clung to each other and howled, which reminded me of a cartoon I’d seen. I briefly considered crying before my Mum left, but didn't.

The chairs and table were all me sized, and so were the loos, when we were shown them, I really liked that. And the little bottles of milk, with a straw. We had little mats with them, which smelt funny. (Oilcloth, this was before plastic everything)
I wanted to investigate the Wendy house, the wooden child sized kitchen in the corner and the large toy box, but didn't dare just yet.

We had the first reading book, with a picture of Janet and John on the front, I think on a blow up horse? in swimming costume. It was called Here We Go. I could read it, Here is Janet, here is John, run little dog, see the ball, sort of thing, until there was suddenly a huge long word in the middle (aeroplane), which was a bit of a shock.

This was in 1960! And sitting down to think about it, I remember lots more, including kids' names and all the teachers. I remember things like fetching Martin Blank a clump round the head for sucking my favourite rag doll's head and making it all wet (yucky boys) and being dragged off to the Headmistress, Mrs Gofton. That was scary.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 23/06/2020 06:14

No, I don't remember much about school. I didn't particularly enjoy it, much prefer adult life.

Alittleshortforaspacepooper · 23/06/2020 06:20

I barely remember anything about primary school at all, nevermind my first day.

Don't actually remember much about high school either. I remember a lot of the people who were there, and a few "key" moments - being bullied, my crush asking me out, that sort of thing. It doesn't add up to much though considering that I was there for most of my teen years.