Can I ask why the vets on here, decided they wanted to be a vet? I take it you like animals?
I always answer this with “lack of imagination”
honestly I wanted to be a vet since I was about 5 and learned what a vet was. Work experience didn’t put me off and I was one of those annoying all-rounders at school who found it easy to get straight As and got multiple offers the first year I applied age 18. Got through uni and here I am 20 years later. Basically never thought of anything better to do since I was 5!
Yes, I like animals. But honestly, that’s not what my job (small animal general practice branch vet) is really about. It’s about people. It’s about developing relationships with clients, managing staff, supporting & mentoring students, liasing with colleagues, ensuring the financial viability of the branch etc. Yes I do medicine and surgery and dentistry on animals, but it is so so so much more than that, that’s not the difficult bit (but it does require that easy-straight-A mind to be able to do well). I’ve known plenty of colleagues who thought that was all we did - I thought that was all we did when I started - get disillusioned or just exhausted and leave practice. Some now do completely different things, some still use their degree working in research or for pharmaceutical companies, diagnostic laboratories etc - no clients to deal with
- some go into management or veterinary education - way better hours and pay.
For me, I found I actually thrive off the people aspect. My job is actually about helping people, by looking after their pets, and I love it. But I love it to the extent that it is the primary focus of my entire life - relationships have absolutely suffered because of it, my current relationship is successful as my partner has a similarly all-consuming job so we understand and don’t mind it can be days at a time we barely see each other! It is not family friendly at all, if we decided to have children it would be very, very difficult to continue in my current role. I can’t plan anything in the evenings as I don’t know what time I’ll get home from work. Several times I have had significant episodes of mental health issues, exhaustion/breakdown etc as the job takes a massive mental toll. I lost a colleague to suicide and am well aware that could be a risk for me if I am not on the ball to look after myself. My physical health is also rather shocking, no real time to exercise regularly aside from squeezing in dog walks, appalling diet again due to being very time poor, and various physical injuries sustained at work - some which threatened to end my career. The financial side isn’t great either - it’s taken me until nearly 40 to be able to buy a home and that’s only with a partner and help from both our families (we are in south east though).
As I mentioned above I mentor WE students and every year support a few that impress me through their applications. But I always say they need to not be able to think of anything else they could possibly do with their lives. If there was anything else I could think I’d be happy doing, then it would be a no brainer to switch careers, I’d be healthier and richer and have a way better overall quality of life! But I can’t, so here I am. I think the issue in the profession is that my kind of full-on role is pretty much the norm, but it only suits a small minority of people, and even if we enjoy it, it’s bad for us. The profession does really need to change what our norm is. Long term I am developing a few specialities that I currently integrate into my practice, but so that I could work as a part-time referral specialist in the future. Not easy though as studying at master’s level alongside this job is just ridiculous really!
Sorry that was really long. But hopefully honest and useful.