My 10 year old g/d has often had a lazy attitude but her mother is similar (my son's ex but she happily admits it). Since lockdown my g/d has started wanting to go to bed later and later. It used to be 10pm but occasionally when she stays with me, she's allowed a treat to stay up a little later if she's been good. However, his Mum's sisters are both weed smokers (as is her Mum) and I don't have a problem with that but they stay awake until 4-5am andsleep all day and now my g/d wants to do the same with her sleeping habits. A few weeks ago she was going to bed and getting up around 8am but she'd be on her own till her Mum got up between 12 and 1pm. At first she was complaining but now she wants to do the same. Her whole attitude has changed towards school too in that 'Well I don't need a job, my mum hasn't got one and she's doing fine', that type of thing. I don't want to interfere at all but is this a normal thing to do? During the evenings my g/d has to stay in her room while mum and b/f smoke weed. They also don't have internet in the house so g.d sits on her bedroom windowsill and uses next door's. Am I worrying too much?