Hi everyone,
Hi everyone,
I really feel like I’m stuck moving on from someone that felt like right guy but just the wrong time. I’ll explain as briefly as I can- met a guy on tinder last year who was the ex of a friend from years ago so I knew of him. We started talking and really clicked. We both said neither of us have had a connection this well before and it’s rare to find. But we both had just split from our partners within the last 2 months. He disappeared and 5 months later gets back in touch. We meet this time. We get on and like each other- holding hands etc. But he moves to London which was on the cards months before anyway. We both work in the same profession. We kept in touch during lockdown with FaceTime- always over an hour and did virtual dates. Then his ex’s father in law died which he was upset about and his brother just had a baby. I was meant to visit this week in June but he asked if he can “push it back” because his head is still all over the place. He said he clearly likes me a lot but doesn’t want a relationship so soon after and hasn’t been single for 7 years.
Of course I totally understand this. I have a few things going on too. So I said I’ll give him space.
Thing is I can’t seem to stop thinking about him. He’s still on my Facebook and he reads my stories nearly every time. I know he’s been back home a couple of times too.
I don’t want to he thinking about him and I want to try and date other people and carry on with my life but it’s tough when I found someone I really liked and he liked me too? Is he right guy but just wrong time? I really don’t know.