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To ask why young people without children work part time?

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RosesinGranGransgarden · 20/06/2020 10:28

Going to get flamed for this but here goes!

In every single job I've been in I've worked with people younger than me who work part time hours. I can't quite get my head around it.
In my previous job I was a retail manager. Most of the staff were young, 20-30, none had kids apart from me and one other lady. We used to have a sheet of overtime shifts up and I used to have to beg staff to work it. These are young people, not studying, none with disabilities that they disclosed to me, most were renting/ house sharing. I never understood why they didn't want to work more hours, get more money for house deposits, travelling etc.
Another job I was an admin assistant and two or three of the other admin were young women, married with no children, who worked three or four days a week. Why?! Even if their husbands earned enough to support them, shouldn't they have worked to save for maternity leave, holidays, nice car etc.
I know money doesn't motivate a lot of people but as a young, childfree person, I would have never thought to apply for a part time job, unless I could be assured there was overtime. If not for financial reasons then just out of boredom, as all my friends would have been working full time.
Currently I work 32 hours due to no afterschool club, my colleague works the same hours. She said to me yesterday she wants to drop a day as she's exhausted. She's 28?! We work in an office together. She moans about not being a homeowner, why not work more hours?
Sorry rant over.

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notacooldad · 20/06/2020 22:27

I forgot about this and it indies sound unbelievable * but it was in the 80's.
I had a oart time job from 4.00pm until 7.00pm monday to Friday. It was really well paid at the time especially for my age and experience. It was working for the local council. With that job I was able to get a mortgage. It was just a two up two down terraced house but it was fabulous.
I used to go clubbing Thursday, friday and Saturday.!! I was happy part time!
Those were the days.

Ted27 · 20/06/2020 22:34

@Paska

you are right, not everyone has a choice, and I'm sorry things are tough for you, but if I, and all those other people here who work part time, actually worked full time, it wouldn't make any difference to your life would it ?

Paska · 20/06/2020 22:44

[quote Ted27]@Paska

you are right, not everyone has a choice, and I'm sorry things are tough for you, but if I, and all those other people here who work part time, actually worked full time, it wouldn't make any difference to your life would it ?[/quote]
I don't have a problem with people working part time, I have a problem with devlesko who acts like everyone can.

Sparklesocks · 20/06/2020 22:46

@Paska I don’t think that’s what devlesko was trying to say, I’m sorry you’re upset but you’re being quite aggressive.

Erictheavocado · 21/06/2020 08:57

I can understand why anyone would choose to work part-time.
When I started my first job, the state retirement age for me was 60. When do and I married and planned ahead, it was on the assumption that we'd retire within a month or so of each other, him at 65, me at 60. I worked full time until I had our dcs. Took a break to be a sahm for a few years and then found part time work to fit around school etc. Then, several years ago, the goal posts changed and I now have to work until I am 67. And my husband will retire several years before me. Had I known this when I was younger, I would absolutely have chosen to work part time , purely so we could enjoy time together ,maybe doing some of the things that we are now unlikely to do when we retire due to our ages at that time. If either of my dcs could afford to work part time now I would be delighted for them.
I often read the obituaries in the Times,
Telegraph etc. To date, I've never read of anyone whose dying wish was to have spent more time at work rather than pursuing their interests or spending time with family.
Not everyone's ambitions are purely money driven.

2007Millie · 21/06/2020 09:04

I've never read of anyone whose dying wish was to have spent more time at work rather than pursuing their interests or spending time with family.

This.

Reedshoes · 21/06/2020 09:40

I’ve always gone by the motto

I work to live....
I don’t live to work.....

🤣

Paska · 21/06/2020 15:41

[quote Sparklesocks]@Paska I don’t think that’s what devlesko was trying to say, I’m sorry you’re upset but you’re being quite aggressive.[/quote]
She has made it clear over the course of multiple threads that she thinks anyone who works full time, especially if both parents do, is a sheeple and only does it because they want 'luxaries'.

buildingbridge · 21/06/2020 16:18

2007millie To be fair, I would have wished that I had pursued my interests and spend more time with family. So it's a mix of both, if I spent all my years caring for my family, then I would have wished that I spent time on my myself, whether that's pursuing my interests or going for the dream job. At the same won't, working isn't everything, and neither is family. It's a mix.

Honestyisalwaysthebestpolicy · 21/06/2020 17:21

The way you are describing it is that they would not take overtime not that they would not take a full time position, there’s a big difference.
My understanding is that those who only have part time positions, often because employers won’t guarantee them full time hours then rely on benefits to top up their wage. If they work overtime then they get their benefits stopped, which is no good if they aren’t guaranteed the extra hours. I’ve always worked full time, but I can see why they wouldn’t take overtime if they only have a part time job.

notacooldad · 21/06/2020 17:28

My friends son works part time in McDonalds.
My son who is the same age doesn't get why the lad doesnt want to work all the hours going like he does in his job ( completely different line of work) However friends son says he will work longer when he has to but in the mean time likes going off wild camping, playing in his band, having a hibby where he sells what he makes.
Both son and friends son are happy with what they do.
Good outcome for both I say.

imsooverthisdrama · 21/06/2020 17:31

Why does anyone care anyway?.
I remember when my dc were young when I was in my 20s I worked for a big company and always plenty of overtime.
I would be offered overtime but usually I'd decline because I had a family. I'd be looked down on by my other colleagues similar age but they had no dc . or they'd say you not doing overtime why ? I'd say because I have dc to look after .
I mean what's it matter to them if I work , I had a house to run and dc to look after . It's not as if I'd talk about my finances but yes I wasn't flush .
I look back now dc are older and feel I actually didn't spend as much time as I'd like because I had to work .
If people don't want to work there extra hours they don't have to explain why .

Middersweekly · 21/06/2020 17:33

Many jobs only give P/T Hours. Some are even zero hour contracts. It’s a way of a company not having to pay out full benefits to F/T employees. The job market can be quite tough for young people so having a job (in some cases any job) is better than having no job at all. In addition I guess some of these people prefer to have more free time! If they can afford it then fair enough!

PetaO · 21/06/2020 17:36

My friend is in her 20s and works 4 days a week. She is a town councillor and a volunteer youth worker so uses the extra time to serve her community. I know several child free people who nonetheless have caring responsibilities....its not rocket science... kids arent the only reason people lives are complicated.

Earthling1994 · 21/06/2020 17:36

I used to work part time before I had my son. For me I enjoyed having the extra spare time to travel or socialise.
I lived happily in a shared house so bills were low. I made enough money to cover bills and essentials and still had the time to enjoy my disposable income. It wasn’t huge but it was enough for what I wanted to do. If I had a full time wage I would have just pissed it away on stupid shit and not had the time to enjoy life

grafittiartist · 21/06/2020 17:36

My first job was part time. I wanted it, as it was perfect and I felt lucky to have it. I had walked out of college into my dream post- so I didn't care it was part time!

TheWitchOfShields · 21/06/2020 17:37

You don't know what goes on in peoples lives! I worked part time from being 16 - 19 as I was a carer for my Grandpa. I'm 35 now and work 2 part time jobs now and have done since I was 24, I work on average 28 hrs per week. I only work part time because it fits in with MY life. It's none of your business what hours other people choose to work, plus how do you know that that's not their contracted hours only?

I work to live, not live to work!

Butterfly44 · 21/06/2020 17:40

Not everyone wants or needs to work 5 days a week. What they do with their time off is their is own business and will be vary varied.

beeetyj · 21/06/2020 17:51

@bluebluezoo THANK YOU. I am ‘relatively’ young at 38 and work part time. I am married and own my home with my husband. We cannot have children. I has angered me that you, OP, have assumed that I should be working full time and saving for maternity leave! No!
Life is too short and I want to keep a nice home for my husband. We have a dog and cat who are so very special to me and I like to spend time with them. I want to look after my parents when they get older and may need extra care. Damn right I’m going to work part time now. Why shouldn’t I? None of your business and you ABU by even asking. ‘Wind your neck in’ as they say up here!

Rachel1874 · 21/06/2020 17:53

You would be surprised how many companies prefer part timers... maybe judge them instead of the people who actually have a job.

Celestine70 · 21/06/2020 17:57

Maybe they can't get a full time job or they don't like working? Or they have health problems you know nothing about. It's not really your business.

motherheroic · 21/06/2020 17:57

Because some people would like a life outside of work. When I worked full time I couldn't even enjoy the weekend because I was too busy sleeping off my work week.

I would watch the clock from the second I stepped into work. Hated it.

Morgysmum · 21/06/2020 17:57

I don't get it either, I worked full time when younger, I gave my parents some keep, but enjoyed the rest. I went on a cruise, travelled to America twice. It was a reward for working full-time. I work part-time now, but would like full-time, so that we can afford a holiday. As we haven't had one in over 3 years.

Casino218 · 21/06/2020 18:04

We were brainwashed into thinking working full time would give you the lifestyle you were after. Young people today will never be able to afford the lifestyle they want so they think meh I may as well enjoy myself now. You know what. They are right. What regrets will you have on your deathbed? That you could have worked more? No I don't think so!

Gbtch · 21/06/2020 18:12

Is it to do with benefits? If you work less than x hours you get benefit top ups, including rent. Exceed these hours and you get nothing?

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