I have a couple things to write about someone and just want to know what your opinion is.
I have a best friend of 3 years. She’s always been quite self centred, which has annoyed me, like it would to anyone else, but I had learnt to deal with it. We have met up once during lockdown, she was telling me about everything that was going on with her etc. and of course I listened and gave her advice, but not once did she ask about me, or how I was doing. I haven’t been going through a great time myself but I don’t like to go on and on about me as it can be quite selfish. I even tried to tell her something that happened but I got interrupted by her talking about the same thing for about the 15th time. I am quite a shy person when it comes to that so I didn’t say anything, or repeat what I was going to say. Now that I think about that day, I am quite annoyed, this is part of the reason I don’t talk about my life to other people that much anymore because I fear they won’t listen and it’ll make me feel worse.
I’m also the only one checking up on her. She hasn’t texted me first in a good while, which I didn’t mind at first because I know she has been dealing with a couple things and just thought that maybe she wasn’t talking to anyone because she wasn’t in the right mindset. Later on I realised that she had been talking to many other people, which did hurt as it feels like she doesn’t really care about our friendship anymore?
I don’t know this might sound stupid but I’m fed up with people not giving any space for someone else to talk and not asking how I’m doing. Am I being unreasonable because I know that she’s going through a tough time?