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To stop him coming now

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hadenoughnow6 · 14/06/2020 21:19

My ex has been coming to my house to see the children during this pendemic. Every time he comes he has something to say, and it's not nice. Other day told me my house looks like a tornados hit it, ( it doesn't he's just a cunt)
I've just decorated my bathroom so I can't be that bad.

Then he said why are you buying this and that, you've got poor peoples mentality
Then turns to the kids and says don't end up like your mum. Tells me I'm stupid for having the kids I have ( he's the father to them all)
Sometimes I laugh but now I've had enough and I'm going to stop him coming over now and he can see that kids after the virus has reduced now. He disrespects me in front of the kids and the kids are copying him when he's not here
My oldest said to me the other day when o was bringing grocery shopping delivery in
'Oh your spending money again'
Shes copying him
AIBU

OP posts:
Hadjab · 14/06/2020 21:39

I would have asked her how she expected to eat if I didn’t spend money.

I’m assuming he won’t listen if you try and discuss this with him?

AnneLovesGilbert · 14/06/2020 21:42

The children can go to him at his place?

RedRed9 · 14/06/2020 21:42

Sometimes I laugh

Why??

RandomMess · 14/06/2020 21:43

Yep stop him. He can take them out, take them to his or. It see them at all...

You need some rock solid boundaries with him and fast.

Bunnymumy · 14/06/2020 21:45

Dont let him in your house again. He can meet the kids outside. Or they can go to his.

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