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How much do you pay for Mortgage?

222 replies

wanderlove · 12/06/2020 22:19

We are starting to look at moving in the Autumn. At the moment we pay about £1000 a month but we are overpaying and trying to get ahead. We've just looked at a beautiful house but our mortgage payment would be about £1500 a month. We do need a bigger house as we have 4 kids in a three bedroom. It's fine at the moment but as they grow we will need more space. At the moment we manage to save £1000 a month on top of paying the mortgage. I don't mind scrimping to do this; I shop at Lidl, get the kids clothes second hand and we generally go on uk holidays and camp. I guess for me I enjoy spending money on a home rather than other things to make me happy. However I am also very careful with money so thinking about taking on a big mortgage makes me very nervous. By moving I will reduce my commute to nothing so will save a tank of petrol (approximately £70 per week) and also have to pay less in childcare as won't need to use the 7am breakfast club (approx £40 a week) so the move could save in other areas of our budget about £400.
I am feeling really anxious and have no idea if it seems like too much. Would you mind telling me how much your mortgage is and perhaps more importantly what % of your income it is?
Also any things I need to think about consider when taking on a big mortgage particular when working out if I can afford it.

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PileofToss · 13/06/2020 15:35

@alicejen I definitely don’t earn £1m! I’ve realised now I looked at it completely wrong - £80k average income and £800 per month mortgage, so after tax per month it’s about 16% Blush sorry!

wanderlove · 13/06/2020 15:48

@TheTurnOfTheScrew
Now you have said that it completely makes sense. It's the money you have left. See this thread has been really useful. I feel
Like I have got to the bottom of what is important when making mortgage decisions. The estate agent rang and said there has been two offers on the dream house and we are in no way proceed able now so that is us out of the picture....but seeng it has brought up some interesting questions for me and partner to discuss. I'm thinking it's prob best to move once rather then upscale twice with all the moving and legal costs involved

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wanderlove · 13/06/2020 15:56

Sorry in case that wasn't clear; not to move to a cheaper house but still and upgrade and then move again when we have more money. I would prefer to stretch myself a bit more and move once

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Spagoot224 · 13/06/2020 18:22

21% ish at £800

Asdf12345 · 13/06/2020 18:47

We pay 18% of combined net income.

BatleyTownswomensGuild · 13/06/2020 19:14

Currently £880, about 30% of salary. But we often dump extra money into it.

Our fixed deal ends soon and we reckon the combination of lower interest rates and regular overpayments means we can take 4 years off the remainder....

jennymac31 · 13/06/2020 19:21

£635 - 15% of our monthly take home pay

YinMnBlue · 13/06/2020 19:54

Yep, absolute numbers and % are only useful in comparison to people with the same income and overheads as you.

It is all about what you have left, and how secure your income is. And how old you are: if income goes down have you got time left to extend the repayment period, for example?

Anyway, personally I would rather spend money on a house than on petrol and breakfast clubs, and cut down commuting time.

So I would go for it.

Regretful123 · 13/06/2020 20:07

I’m way too stretched

IWantThatName · 13/06/2020 20:15

Nothing!
We had a letter today from the bank that after 28 years, we have finally paid off our mortgage. Grin Happy dance!

burntpinky · 14/06/2020 10:30

@IWantThatName congratulations! What a lovely feeling that must be!

Alex1970 · 07/01/2021 08:38

£4.84, I have kept £600 outstanding so as I have access to my overpayment of £141k @ 2.1% should I need it.

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TheGoogleMum · 07/01/2021 08:59

21% of our after tax pay but we would struggle to pay much more

Bangable · 07/01/2021 09:46

£2300 which is c32% of monthly net salary (this doesn't include annual bonuses).

Bangable · 07/01/2021 09:47

@IWantThatName

Nothing! We had a letter today from the bank that after 28 years, we have finally paid off our mortgage. Grin Happy dance!
Congrats! What a wonderful feeling Grin
HollyBollyBooBoo · 07/01/2021 09:48

A third of my income but I massively overpay because at some point I need to get off this hamster wheel of corporate life!

Bangable · 07/01/2021 09:51

@TheTurnOfTheScrew

i never get why the % is important. Say I take home 20k per year, and pay 25% of my income on mortgage payments. I am left with 15k for everything else.

if I take home 40k, but spend 40% of my income on the mortgage, I am left with 24k for everything else. Surely the key to affordability is the actual cold hard cash you have left over, rather than there being a magic % that works for everyone.

Exactly right
nevernotstruggling · 07/01/2021 09:52

477 just under 20% of my total after tax income inc maintenance.

You need to work out the running costs mortgage bills and council tax for affordability.

xxmyheartxx · 07/01/2021 09:53

18% of our combined income, will start to over pay using the childcare costs as well in 3 years and counting which will knock a good dent in the balance as well.

TheSunIsStillShining · 07/01/2021 09:55

Wow! Wish we had mortgage. We pay 60% of our income on rent. 2 working professionals, not min wage.

closetparty · 07/01/2021 10:08

Slightly off topic but why put so much in to savings to shop at Lidl and buy second hand clothes?

I get the need to have a back up fund but honestly what are you going to do with all those savings? I’d rather have a more enjoyable life with some luxuries than a frugal life with massive savings.

Life is for living - if this year has taught us anything.

ChochoCrazyCat · 07/01/2021 10:09

Bloody hell. Are all your houses made of diamonds?
My mortgage is £320 for a 3 bed flat. We did put down a 20% deposit though.
We're planning to move to a 3 bed house and our mortgage would be around £650, I thought that was high.

tellthem · 07/01/2021 10:11

22% of our combined take home pay.

dementedma · 07/01/2021 10:11

About 10% of income