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What to do about dog fighting man?

14 replies

SquishyBones · 07/06/2020 09:03

There is a bloke near us with a young Labrador bitch. Last year we saw him out on the field with his dog (first meeting) so I put my Frenchie on his lead. This man came up and told me to let him off so they could play. Fair enough ... my dog is friendly and I only put him on lead incase his wasn’t. I let him off to play and they immediately started fighting (his was very young at the time, around 8 months old). I apologised and grabbed my Frenchie saying it was so out of character for him ... he said “no leave him, they need to sort it out! It’s socialisation! He’s only playing anyway!” But his heckles were raised, both dogs had teeth exposed so I said “no, he’s really not playing” and put him back on lead. He shook his head and said this is why dogs don’t get socialised properly. I wished him a good day and carried on walking. Very odd experience.

Months later I got a Doberman bitch puppy. Out on the field I saw him again and he said “oh a new puppy! Let her off to play!” So I did ... his dog jumped on my puppy and ... at the time I thought was just playing too rough and my pup was scared so I put her back on lead. Again he lectured me on the importance of socialisation. She was already at socialisation groups and training class so I dismissed his opinion and carried on my walk.

Since then, the guy has become a real menace. My Dobie became leash reactive and whilst walking her he would seem to seek us out, bringing his dog closer and closer even though mine was going mental. I told him to stop it and he said I was ruining the dog not letting her play. I told him she was in training and wasn’t going to get what she wanted by acting out like this. He made it so difficult for me following me around while my dog was acting like Cujo.

A few months back I had her on the field on lead and he saw us, let his dog off lead who then ran over to us and started fighting with my dobie. It was very nasty and he wouldn’t even help me separate them at first, he just stood laughing. When he eventually helped me he had blood all over his hand and my dog was left with a big scar down her back.

Since then, I’ve found out that his dog has attacked numerous dogs in the area. Both on the field and in the street. Most worrying one was he was seen at the shops with his dog on lead. He saw a woman walking past with a bichon type thing and for some reason let the lead go!! His dog attacked this bichon and the poor woman was in tears. He told her it was an accident and was so out of character for his dog but it isn’t!!! The dog is aggressive and he’s in total denial about it insisting it “play” with everyone else’s dog.

My Dobie is finally starting to play nice with other dogs (a year of relentless training!!) and I’m terrified this idiot will let his dog lose on her and it will set her right back!!

AIBU to report him to the police? Dog on dog attacks ... would they even care? I don’t know his name or where he lives.

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Singlebutmarried · 07/06/2020 09:05

Why wouldn’t you report him?

What happened to the Frenchie?

SquishyBones · 07/06/2020 09:08

The Frenchie normally plays nice with other dogs but some reason did NOT like his dog. His dog jumped on him and bit his face and he went crazy at it but it was only a puppy at the time so I gave it some leeway

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Singlebutmarried · 07/06/2020 09:16

Sorry I meant as in do you still have both dogs?

So if you’re walking both together does he give you a wide berth.

ArthurMrdr2 · 07/06/2020 09:19

Definitely report. Do both of your dogs get on ok?

SquishyBones · 07/06/2020 09:23

Yes I still have both dogs, I walk them separately though so I can concentrate on 1-1 training.

My two get on great, my Dobie was playing beautifully with a golden retriever on the field a few days ago and last week was playing lovely with a husky. It’s his dog, it’s aggressive and everyone seems to see it but him!

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HappyMealWithLegs · 07/06/2020 09:26

Definitely report him, why wouldnt you?

I really don't get why you let your second dog play with his after what had happened the first time. Very strange.

OfTheNight · 07/06/2020 09:27

Definitely report him, he’s unhinged! I feel so sorry for his poor dog, it’s been warped by him.

MrPotts · 07/06/2020 09:28

This man sounds like an absolute twat.

I would find somewhere else to walk.

SquishyBones · 07/06/2020 09:33

@HappyMealWithLegs

Because the first time was a year earlier and his dog was just a puppy at the time so I initially put it down to my Frenchie over reacting and getting grumpy with a puppy. It was only after it attacked my Dobie that I found out he allows it to attack dogs quite often.

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ShiveringCoyote · 07/06/2020 09:34

Sounds like he enjoys it. Which is very sinister behaviour. I'm also wondering if its only women he likes to intimidate?

lotsofdogshere · 07/06/2020 09:36

As its dog on dog and no human was injured, the police aren't likely to do anything at this stage.
It's a Dog Warden issue. Before you phone, Id say write down all the incidents you know about so you don't get side tracked when talking to the DW. If you know anyone else who has been harassed by this man, ask them to call the DW.

Best of luck. and avoid him.

Knowivedonewrong · 07/06/2020 09:39

You must report him to your local dog warden.
Tell him to bugger off, if you see him again.

HotSauceCommittee · 07/06/2020 09:51

Get him on social media. There will be other people who have encountered him; if you put it out there it may draw others out and you could put your reports together and put it to the dog warden.

CockCarousel · 07/06/2020 10:03

Ugh, I had similar run-ins with a man when my dog was a puppy. He had a massive german shepherd that he insisted was friendly, but within seconds was all snarling teeth. Luckily I managed to whisk puppy away without getting hurt. He still kept haranguing to "come and play" though whenever he saw us, even shouting across fields at us. He certainly appeared intoxicated.

As somebody said upthread, these types of men enjoy making women feel threatened. I'd second finding somewhere else to walk, which is shit and unfair really, but better than being hassled. A word to the dog warden wouldn't hurt either.

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