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Key worker not socially distancing

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HavingAThink2 · 07/06/2020 08:55

My dc started school last week due to myself and dad being key workers. Until then they had been at home with us as I was working from home.

There is a child in the group whoes mum isn't a key worker but obviously there is a reason child is there. Anyway, yesterday mum put pictures on social media of herself at the BLM protest in a large group with not one bit of social distancing.

AIBU to feel really annoyed that she will go home to her child, who wIll then go into school, and while they try to social distance in school, it is not always possible. I work frontline NHS and I am dreading the spike after this Sad

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Catastrofuck · 07/06/2020 08:58

Hmm interesting first post. Almost like you deliberately included a load of current buzzwords...

Greysparkles · 07/06/2020 09:01

How can you "frontline" work from home

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 07/06/2020 09:03

I’m worried about London after yesterday’s protest, but ultimately I have no idea who at my child’s nursery attended. There could be others so I wouldn’t direct the annoyance at one person.

Ponoka7 · 07/06/2020 09:04

Have you contacted Oxford University? Because they worry that there isn't enough of the virus circulating and we won't get enough reliable test subjects by the winter wave.

Other top scientists are making it clear that we now need the healthy population to get it.

Or are you a Infectious Disease/Virology research/specialist Nurse and have a different take on it?

Do you worry about the spike after the flocking to the beaches, or us all back in workplaces and on public transport?

You know that the proposed mask wearing will do nothing to stop the spread, as a Nurse.

Mrsjayy · 07/06/2020 09:06

Do you have a hospital bed in your house what with your frontline WFH Hmm

allfalldown47 · 07/06/2020 09:07

Another one very intrigued how you are fulfilling your role as a 'frontline worker' from home?

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 07/06/2020 09:08

Do you worry about the spike after the flocking to the beaches, or us all back in workplaces and on public transport? yes the beach worried me, see what happens from that I Guess in a couple of wks.
As for public transport and work, the whole point is those than can stay home, stay home to limit the chances of people who have to work from catching the virus.

hippobump · 07/06/2020 09:13

If parents aren't key workers then the child could be in school due to a potential safeguarding issue. That child's safety and protection is the priority.

Personally I wouldn't go to a large group gathering at the moment (protest or otherwise) but if you're choosing to send your child to school then part of that is you accept that they will be around children whose parents may behave differently to you.

MinnieMountain · 07/06/2020 09:13

How do you know the DM isn't a key worker?

Why did your DC only go back to school last week, when the keywoker provision has been running pretty much from the start?

Pertella · 07/06/2020 09:16

Hmm interesting first post. Almost like you deliberately included a load of current buzzwords...

The simplest explanation is usually correct Wink

Spidey66 · 07/06/2020 09:18

So is the other mum a key worker or not? Your headline says so but your post says not. Also yeah how can you be wfh if you're frontline?

The lockdown has relaxed so much there are loads of ways coronavirus can be spread. I think it's probably unlikely you will get it in the chain you're describing.

PepeSkunk · 07/06/2020 09:20

I bet the other mother is on the dole to boot, who also loves tombstoning and buys puppies from puppy farms.

TheGreatWave · 07/06/2020 09:22

There is quite a long list of what ifs there. Some of the children there will have parents working in direct contact with people with covid-19, yet you happily sent your DC in last week. Why is she likely to increase any risk?

PepeSkunk · 07/06/2020 09:26

In all seriousness, your child is far, far more likely to get COVID from you being a frontline worker or from the children whom are in school because their parents are key workers rather than 'a reason'.

My niece has not left the house one single time, even for walks since she returned from,school,when they closed in March but has had COVID.

Destroyedpeople · 07/06/2020 09:28

How can you be a 'frontline' NHS worker who has been working from home?

MintyMabel · 07/06/2020 09:44

BINGO!!!

HavingAThink2 · 07/06/2020 09:58

Just to make it clear, DH is frontline, I am NHS frontline, not clinical, can be done from home.

I know her child goes to school and that she doesn't work because I speak to her.

@Ponoka7 what a stupid post!

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HavingAThink2 · 07/06/2020 09:59

@Ponoka7 not a chance you are a nurse with an attitude like that!

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Greysparkles · 07/06/2020 10:03

Do you understand what frontline is?

Mrsjayy · 07/06/2020 10:03

Nobody can frontline from home stop grasping onto your own self importance you are working in your house.

HavingAThink2 · 07/06/2020 10:06

Frontline are not, I would rather not have a child, whose parent has not been socially distancing, mixing with my child and putting teachers lives at risk and risk of a second wave. And yes I said the same when it was VE DayHmm

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TheGreatWave · 07/06/2020 10:07

One of my children has a school place, I am wfh and DH is a SAHP. There can be many reasons for a school place.

HavingAThink2 · 07/06/2020 10:08

@TheGreatWave I understand that, that's not my problem.

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SandieCheeks · 07/06/2020 10:08

You’re more of a risk to your kids than a child at school.

TheGreatWave · 07/06/2020 10:10

Ok so let's say this person is a risk, where do the sit in the risk chart compared to the parent that has been working on a covid ICU ward since March?

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