I have posted this on another post and Facebook but am ignored because I am the wrong type of black ‘voice’.
I’m sorry, I have to say this because it is a feeling that has been building up inside me for a while since this all started. I’m not even entirely sure how to word it but know it will not be popular.
I love the UK and think it is very unfair comparing it to America in terms of racism.
I am sick of people blaming their failures in life on being black in the UK. Friends I grew up with, in the same circumstances as me, blaming racism for why they have never achieved anything on Facebook now.
There is low level discrimination, same as for many groups, in the UK, like the disabled, European, travellers, women. But not even close to the scale in America. I was given a chance here and I grasped it. If everyone was as bad as is said then I would not be where I am today. Those same friends complaining were the same ones getting mixed up in drugs, gangs, crime. They were not forced to and has the same opportunities I did. And they had better parents, mine were abusive.
Some of my friends are turning on other friends because they don’t ‘understand’. My friend who got told this is a woman and disabled and in my opinion faces the same kind of low level discrimination I do in the UK. It is some weird kind of top trumps going on. She was viciously verbally abused for attempting to say something supportive.
And the usual violent thugs are using it for an excuse again too.
I do not believe this is how we end racism, I believe this is how we entrench those views.
Smashing statues and blaming the English for the creation of the slave trade (when our own ancestors were doing it to each other long before white people turned up) does nothing.
I don’t feel guilty for anything my great great great great grandparents did, why should white people? This bitterness is not the way to end predjudice.