@waltzingparrot
I think someone up thread mentioned contrition being a key part with Germany and their acknowledgement of WW2.
It seems to me that you cannot clear the air without first acknowledging, then apologising and showing real contrition as to not do this just puts more onto the victims.
It is also this acknowledgement that is the problem as, we can see here, some people compare England to other countries, som think it is best left in the past, and some say it wasn't my working class ancestors.
If we shift the issue to 'behaviour towards our fellow human and say that England, just England has decided that we recognise thenegative parts of the past and want to remove any part of it that lingers on affecting people today, then maybe we start a shift for other countries to also do it - but we have to take ourselves out of the global perspective of 'all other countries' did it therefore... and just state that we, as a country, recognise the damage done.
But it does need a complete acknowledgement I think for people to move on.
Relavant in some ways here, but I was in Ireland when the Queen visited. That really marked a change in the way the Irish viewed her afterwards.
She addressed the audience in Irish (you could see the surprise on the Ambassador's face) and she bowed and laid a wreath at an important memorial site for Irish soldiers.
Two things which I think made a real difference. I think Philip also visited Glasnevin? Cemetery where the Easter Rising men are buried.
I could feel the difference, after that trip.