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To think she must really hate me?

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inableakmoment · 03/06/2020 16:46

I've name changed.
I was friends with a girl for years.
I always did favours for her and was a good friend but she always made a fool of me when she was with others.
Said I dressed awful then would wear the same thing.
I lent her money which she never paid.
I went to her house (arranged )to collect my things and she started screaming at me then told our mutual friends that I was screaming at her and she was scared.
She has told lies to others to turn them against me.
She sent me a message on messenger on the 13th feb saying "this isn't over"
I told our friends about all of the nasty things she did to me.
A week later the police knock at my door.
Someone had made a annon phonecall to crimestoppers accusing me of something very bad.
After a interview with the police they realised it was a malicious call.
I have no enemies.
I have fallen out with nobody except her.
I can't prove it was her but I know it was.
She must of hated me for years to do this mustn't she ?
I have told nobody about it
I can't prove it
How do you hate someone when they've been nothing but decent to you.

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Hidingtonothing · 03/06/2020 16:53

Jealousy, most likely, or a myriad of other things which are 100% about her and nothing at all to do with you personally. Best advice I can give you is close the door very firmly on this person and don't waste your time trying to work them out, they don't deserve your headspace Flowers

KellyHall · 03/06/2020 16:57

It sounds like you're lovely and she's got a screw loose so she's been using you to power trip, assuming your good nature means you won't retaliate. My step mother was just like that, proper batshit, some people are unfortunately.

inableakmoment · 03/06/2020 17:04

I honestly can't understand her ringing crimestoppers.
She must be so full of bitterness.
Half of me wants to put her to the back of my mind but the other half wants to get my own back.
I wish our friends or I should say my ex friends now could see her for what she is.

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FrodoTheDodo · 04/06/2020 08:44

The Police can't and shouldn't act on a sole anonymous report to Crimestoppers, it makes that clear on the website. It's just used as 'intelligence' for Police to gather info on what's going on in certain areas.

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