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Dog poo doesn’t need to be picked up in long grass

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LittleSheps · 30/05/2020 19:52

Walking with my 3 month old in the pram in my local park this morning and see two dogs bounding a little way ahead of me, off leads. Cautiously slow down as they were big dogs and didn’t want them to run into the pram. See one of the dogs take a dump in the “wild” area to the side of the path and then see it run towards its owner. So I ask the guy “Is that your dog?” He says yes and I tell him I just saw it poo and please would he clean it up. He enquired as to where exactly so I point and he says “I don’t need to pick it up there, it’s the long grass, that’s why they don’t cut it”. To which I tell him I see plenty of kids (including my 3 year old) run in and out of these areas - lots of bushes, longer grass to the main park, trees, a lot more fun! and he should pick it up so that no one treads/falls in it. He said no and got a bit shirty with me saying if it bothered me that much I should pick it up. I should probably have just sighed and walked away at this point but his attitude really irked me so I told him that if he was a responsible dog owner he would carry bags and clean it up and if I had a dog and it had done a shit in the park I absolutely would but it’s his dog, his responsibility and that he shouldn’t ruin it for everyone else just because he isn’t keeping an eye on his dog and can’t be arsed. He then told me to shut up, waved his bags at me and walked away.

So was I being reasonable in asking him to pick his dog shit up or was he right about not needing to pick it up “because it’s in the long grass” and I was being unreasonable and should’ve minded my own business? I am not a dog owner so prepared to be told I don’t know the etiquette.

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AdoptedBumpkin · 31/05/2020 16:27

Surely long grass makes no difference?

XingMing · 31/05/2020 18:16

I pick up everytime my dog poos on a footpath or a trail marked for walkers but out in woodland where children would not play because of brambles, brash and rough ground I don't. But dog is NEVER EVER walked in a park or close to a playground. We walk in a forest mostly and the undergrowth is mainly bracken, brambles and nettles. She sticks her bum in a hedge to defecate.

UncleFoster · 31/05/2020 19:19

Dog poo is a massive pollutant of our waterways. Its also unsafe for farm animals and wildlife, not to mention a child which might fall in it. Even if your in deep woodland someone could still tread in it, it can still pollute our rivers. Id rather it was on the path tbh at least then I'll see it.

In my eyes its completely unacceptable to not pick up your dogs shit anywhere. Unless its genuinly unsafe for you to pick it up. Its lazy and quite frankly disgusting to leave it.

If you are concerned about the environmental impact of dog shit bags you probably shouldnt have got a dog.

UncleFoster · 31/05/2020 19:20

Children definitely play in brambles, i still have scars on my arms to prove it!

Heroicasymphony · 31/05/2020 22:38

@UncleFoster yes agree with this. When the waste breaks down, it doesn't vanish. It goes into the earth and ultimately into the water. It's not ok even if a child goes nowhere near it: there are plenty of other living creatures that can be damaged by it.

Just imagine if you're part of a colony of ladybirds and some massive stupid fucking dog - that isn't part of the ecosystem but is there because a human wants to own an animal - empties its arse all over you. Grim.

mathanxiety · 01/06/2020 04:51

Not only is it horrible to step in, it attracts rats to parks (and anywhere else it is left out, including back gardens).

bellabasset · 01/06/2020 08:52

There are always threads on fb about this locally. Check on your LA website the rules about reporting, there is a form on ours to do this. A photo of a woman leaving dog rubbish on a local fb page made the papers. She was using the ferry to Padstow

Also there is often a bag it and bin it slogan quoted. That means binning it in a bin with a bag so it is double bagged for collection. I keep any used cat litter bagged in a separate bag as it stinks the bin out otherwise.

SpillTheTeaa · 01/06/2020 08:58

He's just a dirty pig. Seems a bit like the lady that walks a dog near our house. She let it shit on the end of my pathway. I went mental. She actually walked off! I made her come back and clear it up. It was right bang centre at the end of the path. I couldn't walk around it to get out my house. Dirty bitch.

onceuponatimer · 01/06/2020 09:03

YANBU. He is disgusting. I hate it when dog owners don't pick up their dog's poo. Selfish, revolting and lazy.

EmbarrassedUser · 01/06/2020 09:03

Aarghhh 😡😡 Despise people like this. As I’ve got older I’ve become far more confident about calling people out though and you were definitely right to. The last one I called out was a young lad who had it headphones on. He wasn’t watching his dog and it shit behind him but in front of us. We told him and, to his credit, he picked it up without a fuss. However, he wouldn’t have picked it up if we hadn’t told him to. I did my best Paddington Bear Stare though before thanking him 😂

Mittens030869 · 01/06/2020 09:44

I particularly hate it when people let their dogs shit on the pavement. Especially during the school run, I have to constantly watch out for the stuff and make sure my DDs don't step in it. Revolting and so selfish.

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