A bit of back story, will try to keep it short.
Since we were kids me and brother never really got on, this was mostly due to my mother having favourites and we all knew it. If we were both in the wrong id get the back hander while he would sit laughing. He could do no wrong in my mothers eyes.
Fast forward to getting older, we spoke and acknowledged eachother even took him for days out when I passed my driving test.
Since then he came out as gay, ive always said if he's happy I'm happy. When he met his now husband I said the same thing. Never said anything different. Met his husband just after they got married and he took an instant disliking to me. No reason why, we have asked but we haven't got anywhere with it.
So, since the marriage, my brother and his husband haven't spoke to me. About 5 years now. This has messed up family gatherings as all we get is.. if she's going we're not. Ive tried to offer the olive branch many times but with no success.
Today, following the news of we are allowed to meet up to 6 people in our gardens. Brother called mum and invited everyone over to their house next weekend. Mum, dad, sister and my son.
Mum asked me about it and I said no way. And she knows why for the reasons I've wrote here.
Am I being unreasonable for not allowing my child to go?