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Is my dad or am I? - Car sharing

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foodislifewifi · 26/05/2020 10:23

DDad has gone to work today in his friend's car who is driving (friend works at the same place). Prior to this, DDad was driving himself to work in his own car.

Is this OK? I know about "essential car sharing" but this isn't essential.

I want to apply common sense here, hoping you can all share your views.

DDad lives with his parents but he is distancing from them in the house.

We are all ethnic minorities. Hope that covers everything.

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Flowersinthewild · 26/05/2020 10:25

Why did he stop driving himself to work?

They work together so they are in contact throughout the day I take it?

foodislifewifi · 26/05/2020 10:27

No reason for stopping driving himself to work. They will take turns driving each other (well that is his plan).

Yes they are probably in contact throughout the day, but that would be their own choice and not because they work in the same department (I don't think they do).

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StrawberryJam200 · 26/05/2020 10:28

What guidance has been given about car sharing?

I heard someone from Vauxhall Cars on the radio this morning saying when they reopen sales rooms and do test drives, the employee will sit in the back on the opposite side of the car to the customer. I was surprised that was allowed really.

Flowersinthewild · 26/05/2020 10:31

They have made their choice then, I would leave alone.

foodislifewifi · 26/05/2020 10:35

I heard somewhere that "essential car sharing" is allowed.

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foodislifewifi · 26/05/2020 10:36

@flowersinthewild I can try and dissuade him if the majority think he is being unreasonable

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CoatTails · 26/05/2020 10:37

I think it’s ok

Washyourhandsyoufilthyanimal · 26/05/2020 10:37

That’s fine

66redballons · 26/05/2020 10:38

It’s fine I think. Honestly, we have to emerge from hibernation at some point. Just my opinion, not based on “the science”.
They will see each other at work.

foodislifewifi · 26/05/2020 10:46

Is it still ok given the fact that they are both sitting in the front and there's no distancing?

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GabriellaMontez · 26/05/2020 10:49

This is my opinion.

Keep the windows open. If it's a short ish well ventilated journey, its probably less risky than sitting in an office next to someone all day. Would they both agree to both wear a mask?

ProseccoBubbleFantasies · 26/05/2020 10:51

Ask yourself, what would dominic do?
Then do that

MissEliza · 26/05/2020 10:52

I read car sharing with windows open is allowed as an alternative to using public transport. Therefore, if you're df were doing it instead of going on the bus, it would be reasonable. However, you say he's got a car, so it's not.

Flowersinthewild · 26/05/2020 10:53

I personally think it’s fine.

ChateauMargaux · 26/05/2020 11:05

Common sense says that if both parties are symptom free and have no underlying conditions, this is OK.

saraclara · 26/05/2020 11:05

He has his own car, so the sharing isn't essential. Also if they don't work in the same department, then it's not as though they'd be in close contact anyway.

So no, it's an unnecessary risk.

foodislifewifi · 26/05/2020 11:07

@ProseccoBubbleFantasies hahahaha brilliant

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foodislifewifi · 26/05/2020 11:08

Don't think windows down is possible, motorway with fast speeds

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GalesThisMorning · 26/05/2020 11:09

It's fine if neither one of them have gets the virus. As that's impossible to know and maintain why risk it? Presumably their workplace is putting measures in place to enact social distancing, so they're at more risk in the car than in the workplace.

When I return to work I, unfortunately, won't continue to car share as long as we're still being told to social distance because the two don't square up!

GalesThisMorning · 26/05/2020 11:09

Has or gets the virus

NearlyGranny · 26/05/2020 11:18

It's not essential, though, is it? And a car is a very special case as it's a sealed capsule of air. It's an unnecessary risk. Neither of them can be certain they aren't infectious and it's not the same as working together unless they are astronauts!

It they persist, the passenger should sit in the back nearside seat diagonally from the driver and they should have the ventilation set to draw fresh air into the vehicle. It's still a stupid idea.

The more people who grow lax and complacent about their state of alertness, the greater the chance of a second spike and another, fiercer lockdown.

GabriellaMontez · 26/05/2020 11:22

How long will they be on the car?

Iwalkinmyclothing · 26/05/2020 11:57

They work together.

If they both used public transport they could be on that together.

It doesn't seem they are BU to me.

sirfredfredgeorge · 26/05/2020 12:10

If they cannot use a sensible form of transport then sharing a car is considerably better option.

If they are at high risk, they should be shielding, if not they should not be driving around in single occupier cars.

YABU.

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