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To feel I can't cope with schools only going back part time in August?

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jbonsor · 23/05/2020 17:05

Just that. I was coping OK with lockdown, and trying to keep positive about juggling kids and working from home til June, then take a few weeks holiday over the summer just to do things with the kids even if still restricted. This week I have received a letter from my son's nursery to say he has a space for the 2020-2021 school year but that due to covid 19 they can't confirm pattern of attendance, as in, they can't confirm if he will have the 30 hours he was having since August. I also have read a lot that primary school might be 2 days only a week or a very day but only morning or afternoon session.. This has really tipped me over the edge as I am dreading having to keep juggling all this for over a year. This really puts a strain in family life and finances because now we have to basically decide on one income only, and not onky that but I don't feel I am that good at home schooling and feel like my kids are going to fall behind. Sometimes I can't believe how everything fell apart so spectacularly and how is the Scottish government deciding this is the best course of action without any regard for the mountain of problems this will bring to a huge amount of families.

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Junebug2020 · 27/05/2020 20:47

Who would you have in on Wednesday? Half days would be very difficult. I think that's a reasonable idea, also allows Wed for staff to write work for those not in school and give feedback.

GoldenOmber · 27/05/2020 20:56

Schools, if running at full capacity, are a hotbed of virus transmission

That may not be the case for this particular virus. If you look at the papers from the group that made this decision, they seemed to be generally in agreement that schools probably weren't as huge a risk as first thought and that even fully reopening them would keep the R below 1 (but that reopening other things at the same time might push it over). The group was divided on whether to fully reopen or not, although we don't know how divided.

At any rate it's not my decision to make, maybe they made the right call I don't know. What I would prefer though is that if they need to make a call which will damage children's education and parents' job prospects that they actually address that and talk about what they're going to do to mitigate the damage over the next weeks/months/years. Not just "we'll give out some tablets and ask employers to be flexible, problem solved!"

SockYarn · 28/05/2020 11:57

That letter is very well written but relevant only to the English situation of schools back on 1st june for some kids, social bubbles and so on.

trumpisaflump · 28/05/2020 11:59

@SockYarn you obviously read more of it than I did Blush

trumpisaflump · 28/05/2020 12:00

Oops posted too soon. I suppose us in Scotland could perhaps adapt it though and miss out the English school issues?

Legoandloldolls · 28/05/2020 12:06

Ten out of 30 are going back in from from dd reception class. So I cant see this changing come September. Will they magic up more room for another two lots of ten year R. Forget 6 classes for years 1 & 2

Worriedaboutthefuture1 · 28/05/2020 12:15

@Legoandloldolls

Ten out of 30 are going back in from from dd reception class. So I cant see this changing come September. Will they magic up more room for another two lots of ten year R. Forget 6 classes for years 1 & 2
No, it’s impossible. Instead the government will just drop the social distancing and ‘bubbles’ and it will be all about track, trace and test. I don’t see how schools can’t not resume as normal in September.
cantkeepawayforever · 28/05/2020 12:21

I do think - given that I have little confidence we will return to anything like normal this term - that England as well as Scotland may be in part time after the summer, with half classes alternating for a week at a time, UNLESS the number of new cases and deaths continues to decline markedly despite the relaxing of lockdown.

However, I think that will be for a relatively short 'data gathering' period, to collect information on e.g virus transmission in secondaries including via public transport, and that with luck and positive information from that study, children may be in full time after 4 weeks or so.

Sittingontheveranda · 28/05/2020 21:37

UNLESS the number of new cases and deaths continues to decline markedly despite the relaxing of lockdown.

Ireland had no deaths on Monday and the Minister for Education gage an interview today advising that they were in the process of drawing up plans for blended learning in September. I’m beginning to think life will never return to normal until a vaccine is found.

One suggestion was that half a class will go to school on Mondays and Tuesdays, the classroom will be deep cleaned on Wednesdays and the other half will go to school on Thursdays and Fridays.

trumpisaflump · 29/05/2020 11:45

My MSP's office emailed me this morning with the following. Apologies this is long and I've not had a chance to read it properly yet.

▪	<a class="break-all" href="http://www.parliament.scot/msps/currentmsps/jamie-greene-msp.aspx" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jamie Greene (West Scotland) (Con):</a>:_

I thank the cabinet secretary for advance sight of his statement and add my thanks to the teachers, parents and young people who find themselves in the most difficult time of their academic lives. It is only right that schools do not open until it is safe for them to so for both pupils and teachers, but every day out of school is another day that is lost from the full learning experience and another opportunity for the attainment gap to grow.
How set in stone is the 11 Augustt_ date? If the scientific advice, or the Government’s interpretation of it, changes, is that date also likely to change? Schools have remained closed for months, so if, when they reopen, they offer only part-time attendance, the fundamental question on the minds of many parents will be how they can possibly return to work with their children still at home. If our economy reopens and people are able, or find it necessary, to return to work, childcare becomes the central barrier to that.
Does the cabinet secretary have any expectations around how long that blended learning model might last—are we talking weeks, months, or all of the next academic year? Will detailed guidance be issued around changes to the restrictions that govern childminding and indoor nurseries, the majority of which are currently off-limits to most parents? Will the hubs for key workers’ children remain open throughout the summer to allow those workers to continue with their vital duties? Finally, can he confirm that there are absolutely no plans to cancel next year’s exam diet, as unavoidably happened this academic year?
John Swinney::_
Mr Greene has posed a range of questions and I will give some answers across them all.
My view is that the 11 Augustt date for the start of term is set in stone; I cannot see it being any earlier than that, and it is important to provide clarity to parents on that point. Of course, there is the risk that scientific advice indicates that even 11 Augustt is not safe for us to reopen schools, but I believe that the current direction of the scientific advice that is available to us contains a significant amount of confidence that we will be able to reopen then.
On the duration of the blended learning model, it will continue for as long as we require it to operate but not for a moment longer, because I recognise the importance of restoring full-time schooling for pupils as early as possible. My statement made reference to the fact that, as the scientific advice improves, we will be enabled to move out of the blended learning model at the earliest possible opportunity.
I recognise the challenges that all of this poses for parents. Mr Greene will note from the Government’s route map that the other steps that the Government is taking, particularly in relation to employment and the return to work, are predicated on the importance of ensuring that people work from home where they are able to do so. I regularly discuss with the Cabinet Secretary for Economy, Fair Work and Culture—and she regularly discusses with employers’ representatives—the importance of taking a pragmatic approach to the working location of individual employees in order to enable us to tackle coronavirus, which obviously has a knock-on effect on the education system, into the bargain.

▪	<a class="break-all" href="http://www.parliament.scot/msps/currentmsps/colin-smyth-msp.aspx" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Colin Smyth (South Scotland) (Lab):</a>:_

There was a strong emphasis in the cabinet secretary’s statement on blended learning, which means home schooling. In families in which the parents work—often all day and full time in order to make ends meet—their children will be in school for part of the day and in childcare for the rest. Will there be any changes in how childcare is delivered to provide the home schooling element of that? Otherwise, it is difficult to see how that schooling will be delivered in many households. Will those parents have to pay for childcare if it is being delivered during what would have been the normal school day?
John Swinney::_
Colin Smyth raises a number of complex questions, and it is impossible to give a general answer to all of them. The approach to blended learning will require a degree of pragmatism among employers that is commensurate with the route map that the First Minister set out last Thursday, which, fundamentally, envisages that home working will continue for many people as a consequence of the pandemic.
The discussions that I have with the economy secretary and that the economy secretary has with the business community are critical to creating a shared understanding of how the blended learning model can work and how individuals can return to active employment effectively in different settings around the country.

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Text from COVID-19 Committee:*

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“As people return to work, childcare might be an issue. For a number of families in rural areas in particular, options might be limited and childcare will often be provided by grandparents, who could be in the vulnerable group. Can we offer any specific advice to parents who might contemplate going back to work while having grandparents cover some of their childcare responsibilities?

John Swinney: 
Mr Stevenson has made a really important point in relation to the distinction between “shielding” and “vulnerable.” We have wrestled with the terminology for people who are not shielding but who are considered to be potentially vulnerable. The shorthand that is often used, and which I have used during the meeting, refers to people who are eligible for the flu jab. That group goes beyond the shielding population. What I said earlier was to acknowledge that, within that group, there will be people over 70 who have no underlying conditions but who are eligible for the flu jab. They will not really consider themselves to be vulnerable; they will feel as if they can get on and do things in life.

We will need to be very careful in our message to those individuals; we will have to tell them that they will really have to look after themselves, take care and follow all the rules. Without that, they could become vulnerable and could become very ill as a consequence. We need to give a very focused message to those people in order to ensure that we properly advise them about the choices that they are making.

That will influence some of the other matters that Mr Stevenson raised, including whether such people are able to provide childcare support to their families. In reference to the changes that will be considered today, I point out that we are not considering enabling people to be indoors in other people’s households. That is not part of phase 1. The idea of grandparents providing childcare support will not be advanced by phase 1, and we have not advertised it as such, because significant complexities and dangers come from people going into other people’s houses.

Mr Stevenson has raised a range of challenging questions about how we must put in place a regime and set of arrangements that can be easily understood and practically deployed by people as they deal with the emerging situation.”

trumpisaflump · 29/05/2020 11:47

Apologies that looks a mess! Just copied and pasted from my phone. My DS is having a friend round to play in the garden and he's HYPER as he's hasn't seen a friend in 9 weeks so I rushed this!.

Y0uCann0tBeSer10us · 29/05/2020 12:44

I’m not sure what that text is from, or whether it’s complete, but it seems as though Swinney (and by extension the Scottish government I suppose) still have no practical solutions in mind for working parents. He appears to completely dodge the questions about nursery provision, and stubbornly refuses to acknowledge that 1) some jobs CAN’T be done from home and 2) employers will expect parents working from home to be WORKING and not running after kids or trying to wrap their heads around CfE.

It really does seem as though they are making this up as they go along and there’s a distinct lack of joined up thinking. You’d of hoped these things would have been considered before releasing a detailed road map.

trumpisaflump · 29/05/2020 12:48

@Y0uCann0tBeSer10us
The text is a transcript from an education based portfolio question that took place in the Scottish Parliament yesterday. My MSP's office manager emailed it to me this morning.

Sittingontheveranda · 29/05/2020 15:39

Worrying news from Korea

www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-52845015

HelloToMyKitty · 29/05/2020 16:26

What was worrying about the article about Korean schools? The new COVID spread didn’t have anything to do with school openings as per the article:

Most of these cases have been linked to a distribution centre outside Seoul

SockYarn · 29/05/2020 16:42

Letter just in from our local council, among the usual waffle is:

"Due to the continuing risks from Covid-19, education will be delivered through a blended
model of in-school and home learning when schools reopen in August."

Will be. Not maybe. Not "depending on how things pan out". Not "in the worst case scenario".

This is what is happening. Like it or lump it.

Fucking JOKE.

Y0uCann0tBeSer10us · 29/05/2020 17:00

The outbreak in Korea can't be because of schools because the timing doesn't work out. They had only been open for 2 days or something which isn't enough time for the kids to have incubated and spread virus. Not that you'd get that from the headline though! Total clickbait.

Sittingontheveranda · 29/05/2020 17:07

What was worrying about the article about Korean schools?

The schools opened, then had to shut. That is very confusing for children and means completely re juggling their schedules yet again which is not good for them.

AlaskaThunderfuckHiiiiiiiii · 29/05/2020 17:15

@trumpisaflump so basically we are no further forward? Neither set of my kids grandparents are able to babysit for me anyway as both sets still work full time. My childminder has young kids of her own to homeschool without extra mindees so may be reluctant to have mine on the days they are off and because I have 2 of them needing childcare I really struggled to find a minder who had space for both, I imagine it is going to become very difficult to suddenly find childminder/nursery space if a lot of parents are suddenly needing it. It doesn’t address the different year groups attending at different times which poses an issue.

Sittingontheveranda · 29/05/2020 17:31

I’ve been reading the thread about what determined the decision to send children back to school or not.

The idea of bubbles sounds good and it is what they are doing in some parts of Australia.

Somebody on the other thread said they are not really teaching in the schools. It is very much a childcare setting. One of the teachers said they take the children outside as much as possible. This sounds great to me but it doesn’t meet the ‘full time education’ requirements of many on this thread. There is little pretence it is anything more than childcare.

KatySun · 29/05/2020 17:39

I must be in the same council as you SockYarn as I just got that letter as well.
I am a single parent and I work full-time; luckily from home at the moment, although I have been recovering from coronavirus so that has been a challenge.
I think this is either going to mean reducing my hours and resultant financial issues or taking the view that two days a week (or whatever) is more than I will have until August 🤷🏻‍♀️

GoldenOmber · 29/05/2020 17:45

For other Scottish parents, Connect (parent/parent council org) has a survey out on schools reopening and 'blended learning' and how we and DC are managing now: twitter.com/connect_scot/status/1266372552277942274

HelloToMyKitty · 29/05/2020 18:32

The schools opened, then had to shut. That is very confusing for children and means completely re juggling their schedules yet again which is not good for them

But not all schools. It seems like only schools around the hotspot were closed so the majority are likely to stay open. It says 200+ closed, but in a country with a population like South Korea, that can’t be a large number?

Sittingontheveranda · 29/05/2020 20:20

But not all schools.

Would you want to take the chance of your children being in one of the schools though?
It isn’t about full time education at all. It is about childcare. This leads back to it being far more useful to debate more flexible working conditions for all parents.