Just looking at some of the posts and the responses ppl give and can't help lol and think the op is obviously going through a hard time your response does notbhelp made me think of the unhelpful things ppl said to me during tough times looking back now I see the funny side example
Op posts long post about relationship dp cheating and the response is think you'd be best posting this on the relationship board
When I told someone I was anxious and suffering anxiety their response was oh don't worry about it
Or depression why are you depressed ? It's an illness sometimes there is no reason how about saying there anything in particular that's triggering you
When I told my parents me and dh were heartbroken after being told we may never concieve naturally their response was kids aren't what their cracked up to be 😂
When My uncle told me how well I looked cus I must have put on about a stone
When during a conversation I said I missed having blonde hair my cousin said you shouldn't it was horrible you look far better now
Or when I had to get stage 3 precancerous cervical cells removed after an irregular smear test my friends response was
Oh that's so embarrassing
When I opened up to my therapist about my older sister dying and the guilt I had on my wedding day and how it should have been her going up the aisle first her response was well she was severely disabled she probably wouldn't have got married anyway
Aibu to still think about these comments they hurt at the time but I have to laugh now as I can see how it was the wrong thing to say and am unthought through responsehas anyone any examples ?