to be pissed off with friends comment
pyjamagirl · 19/09/2007 17:57
I was rushed to hospiatl saturday evening with severe back and stomuch pain was doese up on morphine while they tried to find out what is wrong with me turns out I have kidney stones i was discharged on Sunday afternoon and sent home with strong painkillers.
So my friend dosen't ring since sunday to see if I'm ok then I've just recieved a phonecall asking if i'm still going out tonight
of course I said no I still feel crap so she told me to
"get over myself"
Is this just me been oversensitive or is she a bloody bitch?
tribpot · 19/09/2007 18:01
Part bloody bitch, part ignorance I suspect. Kidney stones don't sound very serious, so she probably thinks you're overreacting. I, on the other hand, know someone who was hospitalised with kidney stones and was very unwell, so I think you're quite right not to go out if you don't feel up to it. I guess you need to explain to her how serious it could have been? Or tell her to get over herself!
Easywriter · 19/09/2007 18:02
Lawd! Get over yourself!!
You've only got kidney stones and just come out of hospital!!
You're no fun anymore you know!
I think you know the answer, YANBU, don't hold it against her too much though, she'll probably feel like a TOTAL heel when she realises just how insensitive she's been.
pyjamagirl · 19/09/2007 18:22
I know I should i just feel a bit down at the moment and I know we are not going to be friends much longer I just feel really crap about her comment but at the same time I am pissed off with myself for letting her get to me and not defending myself
RubyRioja · 19/09/2007 18:39
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pyjamagirl · 19/09/2007 18:57
I think tbh she is quite insecure in herself but comes across to everyone as very confident and you think everyone loves her it does come as quite a shock when you find out that other people dislike her too
I became friends with her at avery bad time we had just lost our DD and she sort of took the role of boss
but she is so so patronising I am sat here now so pi**ed off with myself for letting her walk all over me
JodieG1 · 19/09/2007 21:39
I was in hospital whilst pregnant with ds2 and someone on the ward had kidney stones ( I was listening in to what the midwives were saying to her out of boredom) and she was pregnant but she sounded like she was in labour. It sounded very painful and she was on morphine. YANBU
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