My ex & I are trying again. We was broken up for around 3 months and in our previous relationship he did cheat more than once and would send/receive inappropriate messages to other girls and would claim they were ‘just friends’.
Naturally, since we split, he has met new people. Now a lot of these are girls. I have trust issues as it is, but more so because of his previous deceit and lies. He recently told me none of these girls meant anything and that he just got to know them whilst we were separated but admitted some he had flirted with etc.
I asked if he would delete them from his phone/social media because why does he need them if he is back with me? He doesn’t need to be getting to know other girls if he’s in a relationship in my opinion - there’s nothing wrong with genuine friends who are girls. But these are just randoms that he has flirted with or start talking to since we broke up.
He even admitted he doesn’t need them in his life and wants to focus on us but then a week later when I mentioned it, admitted he hasn’t removed any and snapchats them all daily. He admitted he knew I’d have a problem with them too but states he didn’t want to delete them as they’re ‘just friends’ as usual.
Am I being unreasonable by asking him to delete them?