My DW recently went NC with her parents for a whole range of reasons going back some time but also including how they treat us as a couple.
Her mother keeps trying to initiate contact so we have had to stop answering the phone and block all social media.
Since we've done this her father has actively sought out my DB as a way of trying to make contact. DB was mostly bemused because he knows we are NC but I dont think it was fair to use him in this and want to nip it in the bud.
DW is upset and worried about that this shows they won't give up. But she says her parents won't see anything wrong with what he's done now and while they tell themselves we've got no right to tell them who to talk to it will undermine the rest of our concerns.
AIBU to think that it is a form of manipulation since it was out of the ordinary and a way of popping up on our radar when they've been blocked? I just want them to back off.