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The shielded are being told to stay home for another twelve weeks after the initial twelve weeks....AIBU to think this is going to increase the gap between disabled and non disabled?

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AlternativePerspective · 09/05/2020 10:47

I know several on the shielded list who have now received additional letters from the government telling them that they are required to shield for an additional twelve weeks after the first twelve week shielding period expires.So that leaves the vulnerable shielding until September at the earliest,and I can only imagine this will increase as time goes on.

Now,in principle I can see why this is the advice,after all with no vaccine or proven treatment yet the vulnerable are still going to be at the greatest risk, but while when everyone was in lockdown everyone had to be taken into account re work etc,once lockdown starts to ease, employers are rightly going to be expecting people to go back to work,and realistically how is that going to affect someone who is shielded for the foreseeable future? Are employers, who are already looking at lost revenue, going to take that into account?

And people like me who are currently looking for work, does that mean I have to stay unemployed for the foreseeable as well?

I’ve seen a lot of posts on here from people saying that the shielded are selfish if they go out because they know they’re at greater risk so if they choose to go out then they’d be taking up a valuable bed if they get sick.

I can only foresee that this is going to make the divide between the disabled and the non disabled in this country bigger than it already is.

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FourTeaFallOut · 11/05/2020 21:34

That's brilliant, thanks so much @Redcherries, that's a relief.

NagevMama · 11/05/2020 21:38

What about families where the shielded person IS the young child? My son is 11 months old, how does that bode for my husband going back to work? Will he not be able to hug his own baby or feed him, bathe him etc until this is all over?

Xenia · 11/05/2020 21:48

Everyone will make their own choices as to whom they cuddle in the family with whom they live and balance out pros and cons - that is personal responsibility and adult human agency, having taken the best advice you can on what is right in that situation.

We prove our mettle in difficult times.

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