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To follow child's teacher on twitter?

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Yellowskies1988 · 08/05/2020 23:32

Shes my sons SEN teacher at special school. I use twitter a bit and she had liked something from a local page that I follow. Her profile isn't private.

Obviously we speak at school twitter is, I feel a bit more relaxed than Facebook if that makes sense to anybody. Facebook is more photos where twitter is more of a forum.

Just wondering what you guys think or if you have any experience

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KKSlider · 08/05/2020 23:43

I wouldn't. Yes, teachers are normal people with normal lives outside of school hut I think adding them on social media crosses a line and could out them in an awkward position professionally if problems were to arise from it in future (e.g., posting something a parent disagrees with or feeling pressured to share information about the school, etc).

Louiselouie0890 · 08/05/2020 23:43

No absolutely not, bad idea

Orchidflower1 · 08/05/2020 23:44

It won’t end well

ilikebooksandplants · 08/05/2020 23:44

Oh god don’t do this. Obviously everything she puts out there is public but she’s a person with a whole life that I can guarantee she doesn’t want you to really know about.

Am SEN teacher. None of us want parents following us on fb or Twitter or insta. You wouldn’t follow the person who serves you in the bank or your gp would you? It’s the same here. Keep the relationship professional.

CaryStoppins · 08/05/2020 23:44

Twitter is a public site, she wants people to follow her. I think it's fine.

PerplexingWords · 08/05/2020 23:45

Yes. She should not post anything she would not be comfortable with you seeing.

Dommina · 08/05/2020 23:45

Please, please don't. She won't appreciate it.

ilikebigbuttsandicannotlie · 08/05/2020 23:47

Nope. Don’t do it. She won’t want a parent following her.

TheFallenMadonna · 08/05/2020 23:47

I'm a teacher and I use Twitter only for work stuff. If I were using it for personal stuff I would lock down my account.

saraclara · 08/05/2020 23:48

Nope. It'd be creepy.
Also she's unwise to let herself be identified on twitter. Our school/local authority's social media policy didn't allow it. Likewise our FB pages had to be friends only, we weren't allowed to mention where we worked, and we weren't allowed to have parents as FB friends except in particular circumstances (maybe a parent was also a relative of a teacher)

Hwyrynos · 08/05/2020 23:49

If she’s posting educational & SEN related stuff then I dont see why not. I used to follow my university lecturers, they were there in a professional capacity (or at least semi professional). If she’s tweeting about personal interests then no.

TheFallenMadonna · 08/05/2020 23:52

I mention where I work all the time, but it is an account I only use professionally. If it is a work account, there is no problem following. If it is personal, she or he should have locked it down.

Dommina · 08/05/2020 23:56

It would just be so inconsiderate. Please do not. What if another parent sees you, or an SLT member, and they decide it's inappropriate? She should not accept you following her, or it may be against her school's IT policy. So it's a choice of her awkwardly rejecting your request, or potentially getting a disciplinary!

UndertheCedartree · 08/05/2020 23:56

Our school asked us to follow our DC teachers on Twitter so we can show things we are doing and then the DC get a nice comment from their teacher. He also shares ideas and things they have been doing. I also follow my DD's pastoral care teacher, the principal and the PE teacher. They all leave messages and the PE teacher does challenges every day.

crimsonlake · 08/05/2020 23:57

Just no, I am surprised her account is not private and equally surprised you are considering it. You need to stick to professional boundaries here.

TheFallenMadonna · 08/05/2020 23:59

I'm fine with parents following me. That's how social media works. If you want a personal account, use privacy settings. No teacher is unaware of this.

Candyfloss99 · 09/05/2020 00:00

If it's all about school and education then yes. Otherwise no.

redbigbananafeet · 09/05/2020 00:06

Underthecedartree those will be specially created work accounts, not their actual private preexisting accounts. Please don't do this, it's crossing a boundary and invading her personal life. I'm a teacher and would be horrified if I parent tried to me on social media

Yellowskies1988 · 09/05/2020 09:04

Overwhelming no on that one. 👍

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