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To not share home buyers survey?

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kentgal · 08/05/2020 12:02

I am in the middle of negotiating a house offer. The survey advised it wasn't worth what the seller was asking for. The seller won't discuss price unless I send the full survey. Am I being unreasonable not to share it?

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LellyMcKelly · 08/05/2020 12:03

It’s up to you. Do you want the house?

chipsandpeas · 08/05/2020 12:04

well they arent going to take just your word on it....

LellyMcKelly · 08/05/2020 12:04

Surveys almost always come out lower than the asking price. If it’s within a few grand I would suck it up unless you’re not that bothered.

lemontreebird · 08/05/2020 12:05

Will they share the cost with you?

Could you just share a relevant paragraph or two?

Grilledaubergines · 08/05/2020 12:05

You don’t have to. You paid for it and it belongs to you.

If you really want the property though, then share it. There are so many shafters our there that the vendors may just not realise there are costly issues with the property and think you’re trying it on.

Freddiefox · 08/05/2020 12:05

What do you want to happen though, they aren’t not just going to say ‘ok I’ll drop the price’ with no evidence. It’s up to you really you hold the information so I would say it depends whether you still want the house or not.

Grilledaubergines · 08/05/2020 12:07

If it’s been down valued by a lot then it’s going to affect the mortgage offer given by your lender. If it were me I’d share relevant parts of the document and take my chances. If they say no way then you have a choice.

BornOnThe4thJuly · 08/05/2020 12:07

Surveys almost always come out lower than the asking price.

No they don’t! I’ve seen thousands and that’s not my experience at all.

Why don’t you want to share it OP? How much was the difference and how much do you want the house?

mrsbyers · 08/05/2020 12:07

You should tell them / send them the report as they may be happy to remedy the issues at their own cost - we had issues raised on our last house and cost less than £1,000 to remedy and satisfy buyers

kentgal · 08/05/2020 12:08

I did send an email outlining the main issues and there are a fair few major issues. Seller originally agreed to drop price but has gone back on this and price he's wanting the mortgage lender won't lend on.

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Viviennemary · 08/05/2020 12:09

No you dont have to share it. It will be a buyers market soon. Depends on how much you want the house. I can understand that they want evidence of the contents of the survey. So many chancers out there.

Ellisandra · 08/05/2020 12:09

Why won’t you share it?

AgentProvocateur · 08/05/2020 12:11

You’re cutting off your nose to spite your face if you won’t share it. I don’t understand your reasoning

Grilledaubergines · 08/05/2020 12:11

Bottom line is this. Is it more than you want to pay, repair expenses in mind? If it’s a yes, walk away.

Tinyhumansurvivalist · 08/05/2020 12:14

I had a similar issue when I bought my house op. Survey flagged up a lot of structural issues that were going to cost a fair amount to fix. I too screen shots of the relevant sections as proof, I also sent my solicitor a copy and advised which sections they were allowed to share so they scanned and endorsed as being untampered etc so the vendor had a guarantee I wasn't being a tit. Some bits I just had to suck up though.

For example, the survey flagged that the damp course had potentially failed. I had a full damp survey done that advised £3-5k worth of work to replace the damp course along one side of the house. However thar also meant that I had to factor in the cost of redecorating a room that was technically liveable.

The survey flagged that the house had been poorly maintained and several issues around brick work, h&s issues around the floorings in kitchen and bathroom etc.

After a lot of tooing and froing she was elft with little choice but to reduce the price to absorb what it was going to cost me to have the damp course sorted. But I only got that because I shared the report and the relevant parts of the quote to rectify.

Alsohuman · 08/05/2020 12:15

You either want to buy the house or you don’t. If you do, send them the bloody survey.

elvislives2012 · 08/05/2020 12:17

Share the survey. We shared ours after it highlighted huge problems with the electrics and the roof. We used it to renegotiate the price. Doesn't seem fair to expect them to take tour word for it

AJPTaylor · 08/05/2020 12:18

Why would they "take your word for it?" I wouldn't.
They may not be desperate to sell. The next buyer might not get a survey.

GirlCalledJames · 08/05/2020 12:20

Why don’t you want to share it, because of details you don’t want them to see or so thst they can’t use it?
Would taking a pdf and redacting some parts help?

MaggieFS · 08/05/2020 12:21

I'm not entirely clear why you wouldn't, or indeed why they've asked and not just take your word for it, but ultimately, they have asked, so it seems like you're hiding something not to share it. I'd be tempted just to send your mortgage company's letter with refusal to lend, but if you really want the place, just send it.

MintyMabel · 08/05/2020 12:21

Was this the valuation survey from the mortgage lender?

notapizzaeater · 08/05/2020 12:29

If the mortgage company won't lend you the money anyway you've nothing to loose ?

kentgal · 08/05/2020 12:31

I've read through all your posts and take on board all opinions too. I think I have some thinking to do and decisions to make on if I want to go forward or not even if I share the full survey

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heartsonacake · 08/05/2020 12:31

Why wouldn’t you send the full surgery? Confused

heartsonacake · 08/05/2020 12:32
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