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Fucking neighbours!!!!

26 replies

Emotemebaby · 06/05/2020 14:24

Both sides have had grandchildren over. The right side is out in the back blasting shit music every day, and now has her friend over!!! AIBU to report them?! But to who?!

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Burpalot · 06/05/2020 14:27

Call 101.

MintyChapstick · 06/05/2020 14:42

Call 101.

Why? They won't do anything.

PumpkinP · 06/05/2020 14:44

Mine are doing the same. Really pisses me off. They are in the garden all day every day shouting and screaming, constantly have people over. Not reporting it though as I don’t want to create problems for myself.

Jupiters · 06/05/2020 14:49

If it's a complaint regarding the noise you need to contact your local council, environmental health department.
I'd suggest knocking on the door as the first port of call tho.

slipperywhensparticus · 06/05/2020 14:51

You can report them for breaking lockdown using the online form

xeniiia · 06/05/2020 14:52

YANBU

itsnotcakeitsbaby · 06/05/2020 14:53

"Can you keep it down please?"

bloodyhellsbellsx · 06/05/2020 15:13

Lockdown is unofficially over it seems, so many people out and about and cars on the roads up here.

GoGadgetGo · 06/05/2020 15:41

Oh I thought with the title, you had heard a little too much from their bedroom.

Bit dissapointed now that I've read it.

GoGadgetGo · 06/05/2020 15:41

disappointed even

nevermorelenore · 06/05/2020 15:44

Our neighbours on one side have had the grandkids over and on the other side have had their grandparents over. But they're sitting in the garden so obviously it's fine according to them.

I sometimes feel like we are the only ones who are following the guidelines at the moment.

Lemonsherbets78 · 06/05/2020 15:53

I'm WFH and next door are blasting loud music and have other neighbours and friends over. Last year they played a song whilst I was round (I usually get along with them!) that was a song played at my dear friend's funeral and I mentioned how sad it made me and they were very nice about it and changed the song.
Texted them today to ask them to keep it down as I can't concentrate and my boss doesn't appreciate hearing them shout "cunt" and "fuck" every 5 minutes in the background. They put the funeral song on very loudly on repeat for 20 minutes. Not reporting it either as nothing will happen. Considering moving when all this is over.

Khione · 06/05/2020 16:15

and next week (or very soon) it will be allowed to have friends and family in the garden and it will be just as annoying (and safe or otherwise) as it is now.

RichPetunia · 06/05/2020 16:37

I have the same problem. Noise cancelling headphones have been a godsend.

littlejalapeno · 06/05/2020 16:38

@Lemonsherbets78 I’m so angry on your behalf. What utter tossers!

katie43210 · 06/05/2020 16:41

There was a birthday party in my street yesterday, between 10 and 15 people drinking from lunchtime, blasting music. At about 7 the police turned up saying they'd had a complaint and that they were breaking lockdown. Police left and party people start shouting 'grassing bastards'. Someone shouted back from inside their house 'corona spreading cunts'. Amused me no end.

IntermittentParps · 06/05/2020 17:14

A lot of police forces have a phone line for anonymous reporting for this.

crankysaurus · 06/05/2020 17:22

Sounds like our neighbours too. They are bellends of the highest order.

EggysMom · 06/05/2020 17:26

We are just hoping (not really but you get the idea!!) that neighbours on one side of us, develop CV19, and then cross-infect the other neighbours as a result of their ongoing socialising ...

LadyofTheManners · 06/05/2020 17:30

I thought they wouldn't do anything either- the Police
But oh yes they will, as I found out this morning

Our neighborhood committee had reported one of our neighbors opposite, he's a bloody prick at the best of times and you dare to ask him to stop polishing his fucking shitwagon car at 11pm with an electric thing that's noisy as feck and he starts shouting racism at you. (One neighbour on hearing this bollocks last year for the nth time shouted at out their window "no, it's because you're a prick")

Anyway, he has been swaggering about, telling any who will entertain his bollocks that lockdown is to be racist and we wouldn't have it over Christmas (entirely ignoring Easter, VE day etc).

As a result, he has still had people in. All evening, all ages. So the lady on the residence WhatsApp which he refused to join said she was going to report him online as she had had enough. I think that started a chain of others all doing the same.

So, the Police, seeing my window open, cane over and asked us had we seen anyone going in and out and I said, yes, indeed I have, he's very blatant and provocative about it 🤷 I know of the Police neighborhood officer who knocked as he covers my local pub/community centre.

So he is being fined and so will anyone else they catch at the time. He will be receiving a fixed penalty notice.
Twat deserves it

MinkowskisButterfly · 06/05/2020 17:46

We have had to come in as they are smoking weed and it is God awful, it was giving me an awful headache. I can't even report them to the council (I live in a council house) as they have bought theirs. I would report yours to 101 though for breaking lockdown.

Weallhavevalidopinions · 06/05/2020 17:47

No matter how many of us agree with you on here it won't make the problem go away!

Chat to them nicely - if that doesn't work
Lock down rules - report them

cinders222 · 06/05/2020 18:22

For the people saying Police will not do anything this is not correct. It may depend on force but some forces are going to these calls. I am a dispatcher for the police and have dealt with 100's of these type of calls and we are going. Including breaking up family bbq's, kids birthday parties etc and family visiting without good reason. Advice is to educate in first instance and if don't listen then fines get given.

recycledteenager24 · 06/05/2020 18:46

i rather think certain people will be having massive loud get togethers once lock down eases. that's when the fun shit really starts until they get it out of their systems.

daisymay133 · 06/05/2020 18:47

Why bother we will likely all be off social lockdown by weekend

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