Bit of backstory - I have had to limit social media exposure to this mother as she became a bit overbearing by essentially turning up where I was by following posts and using the information I had posted.
In the lockdown I understand things are stressful but she keeps trying to involve myself and DS in an activity that is of little interest to DS as he prefers actual conversation not shit competitive games. It’s also during the day which as a working mum isn’t ever going to fit. However, no matter how much I say the timing just isn’t right (because I don’t want to state that actually I’m not interested in some game where we are racing the kids - well actually more us parents cos the kids can’t do it alone), messages come through about how ‘all of the class’, or ‘the usual group’ are getting together to do this thing and how my child is therefore missing out. I know this isn’t the case as she has played a number of the parents off against each other to get us all involved. She has also implied that my DS would of course find it ‘challenging’ but yet seems to pursue his participation every single time (up to 4 times a week).
The class is small and so I don’t want to go out and shout ‘just stop it, crazy bint!’ But I am finding it hard regarding how to deal. What would you do to just get her to back off and aibu to feel a little put upon?