To wish my DH was more adventurous during sex?

[Dinkymummy]

DH and I are trying to rekindle our sex life post baby. I love my husband dearly but I really wish he was more excited by sex.

He’s quite shy about sex and almost never initiates it for fear of upsetting me. I’ve never really minded that I have to be the one to kick things off so to speak but the lack of sex and excitement is starting to get to me a bit.

I have tried to talk to him about ways we could spice things up but he will just close up and become shy. I’m starting to miss my younger days of experimenting and feeling sexy and I don’t know what to do about it.

How long have you been together?

I’d ask for this to be moved to the sex board op

When you say fear of upsetting you, what do you mean by that? Has there been a negative experience of him initiating? Has he always been the same or have things changed over time?

I would light some candles, dress in a sexy ensemble, tie his hands behind his back and get to work I'm sure his kinky side will ignite rather quickly after that.