We're both wfh and have 2 dc who are pretty good at getting on with home ed etc. on their own but obviously still need input quite a lot. DH has the 'big' important job that basically keeps us afloat financially, mine much less so. Admittedly DH has much more work related stress. He shuts himself in his office and cracks on and is literally unable to see anything else that needs doing. I am doing everything else and working. This is what I usually do except of course when I work I am AT work, no housework, dc etc. When I am doing house stuff I normally have a clear day on my own at home to get cleaning etc done. This works brilliantly but currently it's hard and I feel resentful towards DH for not helping me more. I know this is short term and after all this things will be good again. I have had a chat with DH and he has started doing a bit more, but not really well.
I've really felt this resentment having an impact on my feelings towards him
I need to snap out of it but just feeling so down and fed up with this situation. How are you all coping?