background; I live with my partner and we have a 6 month old baby. he has been furloughed, I am on maternity leave.
she has had a few bad nights recently (well, actually hasnt slept well since she was about 16 weeks although I know this is typical). I have done all night time wake ups, so I have been left shattered. we sort of compromise on this by me catching up when I can during the day (I get her to sleep then he has her on his lap whilst I grab an hour) this is great but last night was awful and I just felt super teary this morning and low. he is a horrendous snorer on top of this and kept me awake himself at various points during the night. I admit, I asked him to turn over quite a few times and was nudging him etc.
I went on the sofa this morning and shortly after baby started to stir, he called me a dickhead and said he would go on the sofa instead (presuming so he didnt have to tend to the baby) i said no I came out here so I could try and get an extra hour sleep (so i dont drip feed I was meant to have a work meeting discussing my return today so desperately wanted to get a tiny bit more) has gone mad at me, called me every name under the sun (cunt several times), said we are not even together because we dont sleep together that much so he might aswell never be in the bed anyway, told me he cant be bothered with this anymore, that he is moving out and that he is going to pick up some weed because I've pissed him off. to those who might doubt someone would go off like that for no reason, this was because I told him I'd come on the sofa due to his snoring.
sorry if this has gone on a bit, he has turned it on me now and is currently on the phone to his mum telling her hes moving back, that I'm a psycho and have been "kicking the shit out of him all night"