in the home my family member works in ALL the residents are confined to their rooms and the only contact they are having is with their key worker or other carer.
I think this is very sad though.
Keeping all the residents isolated - which will be upsetting for many - for what? So that their life can be 'saved' so they can likely die in the next year from something else?
Frail elderly care home residents will have a short life expectancy (different circumstance than younger people in care homes).
Isolating somebody in their room for a prolonged period will likely cause them to deteriorate physically, socially and mentally. What are they isolating for if they emerge after 3 months a shadow of their former self, then catch flu/ pneumonia/ have a stroke and die anyway?
Overall better to focus on quality rather than quantity of life when you are very elderly and frail.
Are you for fucking real. Dying alone gasping from breath no familiar faces, no one to hold your hand, a slow painful death alone.
Few ways to die are pleasant- many can involve 'gasping for breath'.
But being separated from loved ones for 3 months to avoid catching covid and dying without your loved one present doesn't make sense to me, in the context of somebody with a very short expected lifespan due to being very elderly and frail. Rather than spending 3 months separated from loved ones to avoid dying separated from your loved one, why not continue to have contact with your loved one in life for those 3 months?
Sadly covid will get into many nursing homes regardless as staff will unintentionally bring it in, even with PPE.
And plenty of people in care homes still have good quality of life both elderly people and disabled people. My gran had many happy years living in a care home.
Simply because you need some physical help that does not mean that you can't enjoy life
We had some frail elderly relatives in nursing homes die in the past few years, they were all enjoying life when they died but I didn't feel their death was untimely or should have tried to be delayed by heroic efforts, hospital admissions, restricting them from seeing others. Surely better to die when you are still enjoying life (but starting on a declining trajectory) rather than have life extended beyond that when dementia and other illnesses is taking its toll?