Ok so I'm currently heartbroken, been left with a 5 year old and a 10 month old who has respiratory issues which is obv stressful during COVID and my partner left me and has told me he doesnt love me anymore.
It is kind of my fault though because he's not lifted a finger since being off and I mean literally, got to the point he wouldn't even put his rubbish in the bin. I've asked him repeatedly to help but in the 10 months since the baby came he hasn't done anything in the house to help ever or with the kids. He tells me that's my job as he works during the week. Normally I'd just let this slide as he does go to work and I do stay at home but suddenly he tells me I have no opinion on how the money he earns is spent, he took 2000 out my account and spent it on fifa without my permission and when I confronted him he said he'd earnt it so he could spend it on what he wanted.
Anyway back to my fault bit.. He asked if his daughter could come and stay for 2 weeks and I said no. The reason I said no is I have my hands so full and I'm totally overwhelmed and I get no help as it is. I'd offered she came to stop for a week and said it would be a struggle and he'd turned that idea down but then suggested 2 weeks. (we normally have her every other weekend - so never had her for that amount of time before) He suggested two weeks because her mum isn't self isolating and she's already had hand foot and mouth during this which obviously I feel so worried about but like I said I have a baby with respiratory issues so need to protect him. So end result was massive argument and our relationship ending. I'm devastated as I truely love him although I know his behaviour is a bit rubbish towards me. Sorry this message is all over the place and probably doesn't make sense. I'm just so sad