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to think this phase inappropriate ?

23 replies

LIZS · 16/09/2007 09:18

Describing the reaction of children to their success as "going mental" on a TV programme -Reggie Yates in a voice over for Escape from Scorpion Island weekly round up show this morning on BBC2. I suppose it is a colloquialism and he is perceived as "street" but acceptable for tv, especially kids' ? Surely there were many alternative ways of phrasing their excitment.

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FLIER · 16/09/2007 09:26

YABU

Jill60 · 16/09/2007 09:28

You sound like my mum who hates people using the word 'gay' for homosexual because it was 'a perfectly good word for happy before'

Trinityrhino · 16/09/2007 09:32

relaaaax YABU

belgo · 16/09/2007 09:35

I don't like the expression, I think they could say something more appropiate, but don't think it's inappropiate as such

LIZS · 16/09/2007 09:36

tbh it went over the kids' heads, so no worries on that score, but even dh thought it an odd thing to say.

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SleeplessInTheStaceym11House · 16/09/2007 09:36

my dd is 2.11 and i say to her that shes gone mad when she goes hyper!

id say relax yabu!

LIZS · 16/09/2007 09:39

think "mad" has a less derogatory connotation than "mental" tbh. It isn't a term I'd use but maybe I'm out of touch!

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Blandmum · 16/09/2007 09:46

I can see where yiou are coming from. The word 'mad' is very well embeded in yuor language though, 'Mad with grief', 'Mad about the boy', 'they are driving me mad'.

Rather like the fact that 'I'm feeling a bit depressed today' is the same word that we use to describe clinical depression.

I think it will be a very long time before these usages stop

Paddington64 · 16/09/2007 09:49

YABU

ScottishMummy · 16/09/2007 09:59

unclench - its a very commonly used colloquialism

LIZS · 16/09/2007 09:59

mb it isn't going to stop though if it is seen as acceptable in the context of a gameshow and similar phrases have been handed down through the centuries as language evolved so it isn't a big leap linguistically. I might have thought it mroe appropriate in a programme like Grange Hill or Tracy Beaker as opposed to a commentary.

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LIZS · 16/09/2007 10:02

honestly it isn'lt a big deal fr me but it struck me at the time as an unnecessary way of putting it!

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2shoes · 16/09/2007 10:18

yabu
I understand where you are comming from. but that term has been used forever.

mrsmcready · 16/09/2007 10:20

another yabu

melpomene · 16/09/2007 11:36

YANBU. I agree that it has derogatory connotations and isn't appropriate in a commentary.

belgo · 16/09/2007 11:51

I associate the term 'mental' as being very insulting.

Desiderata · 16/09/2007 12:08
Toe · 16/09/2007 12:18

What's YABU please?

Toe · 16/09/2007 12:21

Duh sorry

JeremyVile · 16/09/2007 12:22

Like this Desi? >> Mental

Niecie · 16/09/2007 12:25

The word 'mental' is neutral it is the mental state you are describing that makes it good/bad.

If you said 'going mad' it would be more negative as being 'mad' is not a good thing.

YABU. Don't think too hard about these things - it drives you mad in the end.

Desiderata · 16/09/2007 13:32

Exactly like that, JV

KerryMum · 16/09/2007 13:34

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