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Just so sad today.

38 replies

Wineiscooling · 23/04/2020 23:14

I am an NHS worker. I'm usually upbeat, from the beginning myself and my friends/colleagues have approached the pandemic with a positive outlook. We will work hard, extras, late, not take a break, do whatever it takes to get our patients through this. I felt invincible. I'm young and fit, I'll come in contact with Corona but I'll be fine. But just today, half my team are off sick with Corona, either confirmed or suspected awaiting swab results. My work load is double, I'm a specialist in my area so people can't just be drafted in, the referrals with Covid are coming in thick and fast with no sign of slowing and there are 3 healthcare workers in ICU ventilated. 1 died last week. I feel like tomorrow I'm going into the lions den, I might be next. I'm not usually dramatic but these nurses/doctors on ICU are also fit and healthy like me. They didn't expect to be vented. And yet Britain seems to be relaxing, there's more traffic on the roads, tubes full, construction work back on, shops re-opening. I don't know what the answers are, lockdown can't last forever but please consider what's the reality for key workers. I don't want praise, I'm not even considered frontline in my role. I just needed to vent before I go to bed.

OP posts:
Neolara · 23/04/2020 23:16

That sounds incredibly tough. I'm sorry you've had such a hard day.

Bluewater1 · 23/04/2020 23:18

That sounds unbelievably difficult. I'm not surprised you are feeling how you are feeling x

Popc0rn · 23/04/2020 23:21

"We will work hard, extras, late, not take a break, do whatever it takes to get our patients through this."

This is really dedicated of you, but please remember to look after yourself too. You can't pour from an empty cup, and this will be a marathon not a sprint (cheeeeeeesy!). You need to take your breaks at work and enjoy your days off. Look after yourself. WineBrewCakeFlowers

Frozenfan2019 · 23/04/2020 23:22

There's always some idiot who voted YABU to be contrary

Obviously you are not, I am sorry it is showing no signs of slowing, this is not what we are being led to believe. Also very sorry to hear about your colleagues.

Popc0rn · 23/04/2020 23:22

And it is not dramatic to be a bit apprehensive about going to work in a pandemic. I'm a nurse and I'm sh**ing myself. There's also 3 staff members in ICU at my hospital, it's terrifying.

Justgorgeous · 23/04/2020 23:28

You are amazing - thank you for all you are doing. I have no idea why people are not taking this seriously and why people were queuing today to buy a burger!

Smelborp · 23/04/2020 23:30

I would be feeling the same as you OP. Look after yourself. Flowers

ThisMustBeMyDream · 23/04/2020 23:33

4 of our colleagues died this week from covid. 3 in one day. All health care workers. We held a socially distanced memorial prior to the clapping at our hospital tonight. It nearly broke me. We aren't a big hospital. Just a small dgh.

Marchitectmummy · 23/04/2020 23:38

You are right people are relaxing again and taking risks. I've started to notice the people spouting flu stats are back around again.

Its frustrating, people are stupid.

eaglejulesk · 23/04/2020 23:47

Take care, and be kind to yourself. It sounds like hell. Flowers Flowers

Asimovsfutureishere2020 · 23/04/2020 23:48

You are just as important as your patients. Please look after yourself and rest as much as you need. x

RigaBalsam · 23/04/2020 23:57

Awww op ThanksThanksThanks

It sounds awful. Have a good rest for now you deserve it.

Wineiscooling · 25/04/2020 19:14

Thank you for the lovely and supportive comments. I had a busy couple of days at work but in the end it was ok, we coped. I have 3 days off now and intend to do lots of chilling with my children. I was slightly annoyed today to come home to neighbours having a BBQ in the garden with people that don't live with them. I'm not sure if it's friends or family but I feel so frustrated at them as it's happened a few times since lockdown. If they only saw what we saw at work on a daily basis.
Anyway, thank you all, to everyone stay safe and let's get out of this with our loved ones well .

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lamplamplamo · 25/04/2020 19:15

ThanksThanksThanksThanks

BurMaMa2 · 25/04/2020 19:46

You're brave and brilliant. Please take your break and rest times. Your patients need you, and so do your family and the rest of the world. Many blessings.

Jubilee2012 · 25/04/2020 19:57

I am so very sorry that you are having to go through this and saying thank you simply isn’t enough. You are doing an amazing amazing thing and whilst I don’t know you, we are all forever indebted to you and your incredible colleagues.

Have a lovely few days with your children and enjoy the sunsine. They must be so very proud of you. I wish I could send you a real one - but a virtual 🍷 will have to do!

LookBackInIngres · 25/04/2020 20:29

God bless you and keep you and your children safe. Our gratitude is immense but not as big as your commitment and bravery. Thank you so much. x

ThisMustBeMyDream · 26/04/2020 09:44

After posting my message to you 3 days ago, I now have a cough (and sore throat). No fever yet. Awaiting a test through work after the gov site crashes when you get all the way through the process to confirm your appt.
Terrified. I'm a single mum to 3 children.

Justgorgeous · 26/04/2020 12:20

@ThisMustBeMyDream. Hope you are ok? There are lots of things going about. My friend has a cough and sore throat but after 4 days is feeling better. Keep hydrated and take regular paracetamol for the sore throat. Wishing you better soon.

Livingtothefull · 26/04/2020 12:48

Dear Op I sincerely hope you are OK. I am sorry that you have all the added stress of problems with the gov site crashing when arranging your test.

There isn't much I can say more than what has already been said above....but I did want to let you know how much admiration and respect I also have for you due to the work you do. You should be so proud of yourself. I wish you & your family all the very best.

ThisMustBeMyDream · 26/04/2020 12:51

Thank you. I feel okay, just worried. Hoping it is just one of the usual bugs.

I had my test at 10.40 this morning. Super amazing efficiency from my Trust.

Kids are struggling as at 7 and 4 they are still very tactile. My 18 year old is less of a problem however! Sat here in a mask that I luckily have from my work by chance (community staff). The leaflet they gave me said to wear a mask if you need to be in the same room. So that's me sat in the corner with a mask on, looking all scary to try and protect my kids physical health.

Popc0rn · 26/04/2020 13:27

@ThisMustBeMyDream

Hope you feel better soon FlowersBrewCake

Four4me · 26/04/2020 13:46

ThisMustMeMyDream take care, I'm a physio and started with a sore throat and then a cough, which has turned into shortness of breath and lung pain. My husband has symptoms too. We have 4 children who are all fine 🤞🏻
I have been tested, but the results were -ve, the test was probably too late as I didn't count the sore throat, just from the onset of the cough, I have no doubt this is covid as I normally can run 8km no bother and am puffed just walking round the house.
Apart from contacting GP to get signed off work for next week so far I have managed my symptoms at home.
Sending you virtual hugs and hope you feel better soon. I went into this thinking I am fit and healthy I can fight the fight in the hospital and now am embarrassed by my naivety.

Four4me · 26/04/2020 13:48

ThisMustBeMyDream

BlueSuffragette · 26/04/2020 14:05

For you OP. FlowersGinCake
You do an amazing job. Thank you. Take care. X

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