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Saving Baby Teeth

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ToothFairyOrScary · 20/04/2020 21:16

DD16 was talking about her baby teeth and I have just given her them all back, each wrapped up labeled with the date lost.

She was pleased but has asked if it is normal to save them, and I honestly don't know...

YABU - no not normal at all, what were you thinking of woman!

YANBU - that's a perfectly reasonable and ordinary thing to do, nothing weird to see here!

(Have name changed so if DD sees this won't find my posting history)

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AlecOrAlonzo · 20/04/2020 23:34

My mum has her own first tooth and her brother's. She has a couple of others that she thinks might belong to me or one of my siblings. My own dd lost her first a couple of weeks ago. I have it. No idea what to do with it.

ladycarlotta · 20/04/2020 23:40

My mum kept mine, I remember finding them in a drawer and being Extremely Puzzled as I knew the tooth fairy had taken them. She had them at least until I was a teenager but god knows what happened to them - hope she's binned them.

It must be a very hard thing to get rid of in the moment, it's such a rite of passage and we are inclined to worship the bits that drop off our precious babies. I'm sure I'll be equally weird when it happens for my daughter.

happymummy12345 · 21/04/2020 00:37

I always thought you keep the first one that's it? Hence the first curl first tooth boxes you can get? We will keep the first one, that's it.

Dinosauratemydaffodils · 21/04/2020 00:47

My mother saved one of mine and put it into a creepy little fairy charm. She gave it me for Christmas attached to a silver charm bracelet. Yes, I still have it and no, I won't be doing the same for my children.

I also have one of my wisdom teeth. It was growing at a weird angle and has lovely twisty roots. I asked if I could keep it and my dentist said yes. The dental nurse put it in a little bag with a fairy on the front...I was about 28.

I worked for a homeless team dealing with temporary accomodation amongst other things before I had dc. Got a phone call one day to say that a tenant had found a box of teeth when they moved into a flat. Went around to find they had indeed found a box full of what looked like adult teeth, belonging to more than one person as it turned out (lots of the same teeth and more than a mouthful). Our theories ranged from a serial killer to a dentist who liked taking their work home.

I know lots of people keep the cord clamp thing when the stub falls off, but she said that was disgusting.

I have dd's. It wasn't kept intentionally but my dad died just before she was born and then she was a terrible sleeper. Found it about a year later and thought, it's lasted this long, might as well keep it. Less disgusting than I expected really, no smell or anything.

Pieceofpurplesky · 21/04/2020 01:30

I'm 50. My mum has a box with a lock of my hair, my first tooth and my hospital band.

I have the same for DS and all his baby teeth

A friend of mine has both first teeth of her children in a necklace that she wears every day

ToothFairyOrScary · 21/04/2020 09:54

With apologies to everyone who was repulsed by this, it seems that whilst it may not be entirely normal, it isn't particularly unusual either Grin

Thanks for sharing

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MorganKitten · 21/04/2020 11:09

My mum saved mine, she’d put each one in tinfoil (tooth fairy can see then shining) and put then in a candle stick holder. After going to New Orleans it gives me voodoo vibes.

quarantinevibes · 21/04/2020 11:40

I saved my own teeth every time they fell out and put them in a little box. A few years later found the box empty and DM had thrown them away! Shock I was quite upset she told me I was disgusting for keeping them.

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