I was reading a spiritual book some time ago.
It said "if people knew how much energy is exchanged during sex, they would be very, very careful about who they had sex with"
What do you think about this?
A few years ago, I was less choosy. If the man's life wasn't going great, I would have sympathy for him. When I should have been much more choosy who I let near me.
Two years ago, I was successful, wealthy, I had a great work ethic. I started seeing a man who was living at home with his mother, he was poor. But he was going back to college. He was also moody. I was sympathetic to him, that he was going through a tough place in his life. However, I began to see that he was poor due to laziness. That if anyone pointed out a part time job to him - he would refuse to do it. He became moody and bad tempered. I also began to suspect that he was doing some kind of drugs.
I had sex with him, and was sympathetic and kind to him. Months later he dumped me on my birthday. Of course I wish that I hadn't been with him. This was two years ago, and I really feel that I haven't been myself since.
I used to be really, kind, nice, successful, and had a good work ethic.
After I was with him, My personality has changed, I am moody, angry, lazy. My friend met me after him, and said "wow you have become so angry". After him, I left my well paid job and went travelling for a few months, and then came back and worked part time for a little bit and then I have been unemployed for a long tome. I can't seem to find the motivation to do anything.
He is now successful. I really think that he took all of my good energy at the time, and left me with his bad energy. I miss my old self.
Do you think that we take people's energy during sex?