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User67890 · 18/04/2020 14:17

DP and I have had another of many arguments and I'm done with the relationship. We own a home together, only been there 6 months, not married. Have a 3yr old and I'm currently pregnant.
He has said some awful, cruel and unforgivable things that I will not be moving past. I was so upset this morning that I came to my mums (please don't flame me, I was inconsolable and left the house as a last resort).
I actually have no idea what I do now. It's only a 2 bedroom house and DD has one room. I don't think I can bare being in the same house but don't know what people even do in this situation? Obviously we'll have to sell the house but half of what we make won't be able to even afford me a two bedroom flat where I live and rent is sky high unless I totally relocate which would interfere with work, nursery, any connections I have to friends and family.
Please forgive me if this is coming across as naive. I'm sure lots of people do end up having to relocate and I'm not trying to be precious. I just am genuinely feeling at a loss as what I do now, where I go from here. My emotions are all over the place and feeling incredibly low at the moment. I struggled with antenatal depression in my 1st pregnancy and think I'm probably going through the same at the moment so please be gentle.

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NuffSaidSam · 18/04/2020 14:25

Can you stay at your mum's for the time being? At least until lockdown is over?

TDL2016 · 19/04/2020 08:55

Stay at your mums.

maddening · 19/04/2020 09:41

Can you afford. The mortgage by yourself once you finish mat leave? If so if you have only owned it 6 months then the equity will not be much beyond the deposit,. Could your parents help buy him out?

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