So I registered on a dating site about three weeks before the lockdown for the first time ever. I’m early 30s single mum and haven’t dated properly since I got separated.
Anyway, I noticed I got so many interactions within the first one hour. Several views and likes and coming from a mostly sexless marriage of 8+ years this was very flattering.
One man stood out though. A 37 yo, He told me he didn’t like long chats and would really appreciate if we met in person. Due to the issue with Covid I agreed but insisted on being outdoors.
1st date he came with a huge bouquet of flowers and parked somewhere close and we went on a 3 hour walk. We talked about everything. But I didn’t want to take him seriously.
He proposed another date, this time he packed a delicious picnic with Hungarian wine etc. And found a beautiful spot for us to walk and just talk.
I don’t want to bore you but he has called me every day and planned lots of cool lockdown dates and even bought Easter gifts for my DD and a pack of vitamins for DM after I mentioned she was lonely/sad during the lockdown and delivered Hungarian home made meals he prepared for us. We have never kissed btw.
I’m just confused because he seems so confident and self assured that we are in a relationship. I have read up that this might be a Hungarian thing where relationships move very fast.
Tbf I have stopped logging into the dating app and turned off notifications. But I’m wondering is it just too early? If I still chat with others would it be unfair? He seems so nice. He seems a keeper but too early to say I suppose.