My BF has been on lock down at mine. We don't live together usually.
Tomorrow is my birthday and we were going to have a takeaway and a few gins and celebrate. I have been dieting so this will be the first take away in so long.
So today he went to pick up some clothes from his and he was dropping off a power tool that he had borrowed from a friend.
He sent me a picture of the dinner his friend had made for him, so instead of dropping the tool at the door and leaving he went inside and ate.
The problem with this is his friends GF is a nurse working with CV19 patients.
So of course I have said he isn't to come back here, instead he will have to go home and finish lock down there. I have 3 children, one with a medical condition so it's too risky for me.
He accepts my reasoning but keeps texting he is sorry and he feels bad for ruining my birthday.
He wants me to minimise it and say oh don't worry we will celebrate after lock down. Make him feel better.
AIBU to not do this.
He has form for ruining plans. He doesn't do it maliciously, he is generally just thoughtless.
I am cross and don't feel like making him feel better.