Relative socialising outside his home.

[Starlet29]

My brother has posted a selfie of himself drinking.. not at my parents house. I assume at his friends or girlfriends house. No one else apart from family would probably notice this but I have a good eye for detail and it’s most definitely not my mums garden. I am older, married and have my own home and keeping away from everyone. Haven’t Driven anywhere for over 2 weeks.

Would I be unreasonable to tell him to get the f**k home?

I don’t think I’m jumping to conclusions! I know this is not my mums garden and he is drinking!

Ooh good for you doing it 'right' OP.

That's all you can do. You can't tell another adult what to do without looking like an utter twat. If you don't mind about that or your relationships with your family then go ahead.

Are you sure the selfie is current or has he sent an old photo?

If he lives with your parents, surely they will know if he has gone to a friend's.

I would get your facts before you make waves. And then if he is being a pillock yes have a word, if he is putting your parents and others at unnecessary risk it's not on.

Is there going to be a new thread each time we see someone doing something we dont approve of?

@Starlet29 start by asking your parents where he is. Then if they say he’s gone elsewhere then shame the hell out of him.