Have posted about my ex before. He left the family home when our DD was five. A while later he moved 400 miles away and had very minimal contact with DD. At one stage he went 12 weeks without so much as a phone call. I pleaded with him to have more regular contact but he was stonefaced and would not. He now sees her for approximately half the school holidays and comes down for a nice Disney jolly for her birthday. That's it. He was supposed to have her for half the Easter holiday but our flights and his were of course cancelled and DD and I are at home observing the lockdown. I can work from home, she has been doing school work, we haven't had to even go to the supermarket once.
Now ex has texted saying he wants to drive down and take DD back to his. AIBU to think that an 800 mile round trip is not really on in the current circumstances? If the restrictions increase she could well end up stuck there and even if she didn't it's another 400 mile trip for her to get back here. I know DD wouldn't want to be away from me for a long time either and he works for the emergency services so will have to work whereas I can work from home.