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Really cross

142 replies

Hingeandbracket · 10/04/2020 09:03

Is this a regional expression?

I keep seeing it on here and I always imagine it being said in a Southern English accent.

It sounds like a refugee from a 1950s Ealing Comedy.

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Teana89 · 10/04/2020 10:16

We say it in Australia. I thought it was a widely used term.

onlymyselftoanswerto1 · 10/04/2020 10:18

I'm in Northern Ireland and we would say it quite a bit in the area I'm from.

rc22 · 10/04/2020 10:19

I'm from Yorkshire and would say "really cross."

MarieQueenofScots · 10/04/2020 10:21

I do hear it as an old fashioned or very posh word (like ‘horrid’)

Oh lord I also use “horrid” and “ghastly” Grin

Hingeandbracket · 10/04/2020 10:21

Not Scottish (although often wish I was).

I am in the English East Mids - never heard of Crosspatch either.

This is interesting.

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GBroGal · 10/04/2020 10:23

PPs "ever so" reminds me of when I was looking for a B&B I'd booked, but just couldn't find. I phoned and said where I was, to get "Oh, you're ever so close". I thought (but didn't say) that's ever so helpful, but where the fuck are you? I was really cross.

CeibaTree · 10/04/2020 10:23

My 3 year old says it a lot 😂

DurhamDurham · 10/04/2020 10:24

It's said a lot in our house Grinwe're in Durham in the NE

Hingeandbracket · 10/04/2020 10:24

is it the word cross you find odd or coupling it with really?
The word cross.
I do hear it as an old fashioned or very posh word (like ‘horrid’), or trying to not say ‘pissed off’. Can’t imagine saying it at work in a grown up environment.
^this is very much my view of it - but I accept I am weird.

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butterpuffed · 10/04/2020 10:25

Guilty ! I'm from the South East and say it.

I also say annoyed, pissed off , fucked off and furious.

Sometimes I'm contented though Grin

PuddyMuddles4 · 10/04/2020 10:26

This explains it all GrinGrin.

Really cross
Chewbecca · 10/04/2020 10:26

Sounds entirely normal to me! (South East).

HoffiCoffi13 · 10/04/2020 10:29

Hingeandbracket I’m also in the East Mids and use it all the time. I have moved around a lot though so maybe picked it up on my travels!

pippistrelle · 10/04/2020 10:32

Until I was an adult and was meeting people from different backgrounds and places, I thought it only existed in the works of Enid Blyton. See also 'horrid', and people called Julian.

PinkiOcelot · 10/04/2020 10:34

I hate it. Really cross! Daft saying really.

morecoffeerequired · 10/04/2020 10:34

I only think of it as a vair posh thing if the person says that they are 'terribly cross' or 'awfully cross' Grin

SerenDippitty · 10/04/2020 10:36

Always thought being cross was halfway between being annoyed and being furious.

RebeccaCloud9 · 10/04/2020 10:38

Eh?

I'm from the East Mids. It's a totally normal thing to say! Weird.

Seetheprettysnowdrops · 10/04/2020 10:39

I've always associated it with the English

Said by the type who refer to things as horrid or to people as poorly.

All words that to me are a bit 1950s Enid Blyton

Not wrong, just not words I've heard used in my part of the UK

Rayagoldensun · 10/04/2020 10:39

I’m in Yorkshire and say it. It covers a lot of situations. With my DGC if they’re doing something they know they shouldn’t be doing it changes to im going to get really cross in a minute and if that’s not an idle threat I don’t know what is.

PaleBlueMoonlight · 10/04/2020 10:40

Yep, entirely normal expression with no connotations whatsoever.

Apple1029 · 10/04/2020 10:40

All I can picture is a petulant child with arms folded shouting I'm cross. When adults say it I can't take them seriously.

Rayagoldensun · 10/04/2020 10:40

Im definitely not posh or even close btw.

Kordelia · 10/04/2020 10:43

I've only heard it occasionally (Scotland) and would usually say 'annoyed'. Never 'ever so' anything!

We certainly use 'crosspatch' in my family though.

I imagine people who say cross also say horrid and poorly.

chomalungma · 10/04/2020 10:43

Isn't 'cross' a word that most people use?

I am Northern - but I thought most people used it.
Especially when they are cross.