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Ex mil issues

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Whitegrapeandblackberry · 06/04/2020 18:46

To start of with me and ex have been separated for a while, he wants to be back together however I really don't think it would work anymore, we still live together at the moment, ex mil has interfered quite alot since DD has been born, any way I've Been feeling really unwell today, migraine and dizzy when I stand up, I phoned ex and asked if he could come home to help with DD and I just didnt feel right, all fine his boss okayed it and he came home no issue at all, ex mil face times ex asks why he's home so early ( fair enough with all the Corona going on he may be furlonged) so he told her and she didn't seem to care about how I felt she started asking him if he still would be paid for taking the time off, aibu or is it really none of her business? He doesn't ask to borrow money or anything from her, also she doesn't realise we aren't together anymore as he won't tell her, just find it abit intruding and yes I know I should sort my own money out but until we are sure what's going on we are both okay with how it is for now, aibu to think she's being too nosey and should mind her own business?! Xx

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Kapsauss · 06/04/2020 18:49

YANBU
It's none of her business what's going on in your house or how you run it. She can jog on with her opinions.

Whitegrapeandblackberry · 06/04/2020 19:09

It feels like I'm living in her son's house and using all his money, we are both on the mortgage have a DD together too, she says it about ex's brothers ex " all ex brothers money's going on that " etc xx

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Stampy84 · 06/04/2020 19:21

@Whitegrapeandblackberry none of her business- also just a heads up, using ‘xx’ on mumsnet is frowned upon 👀

Whitegrapeandblackberry · 06/04/2020 20:55

I didn't think I was being unreasonable thankyou for your replies!! Any idea how I can stop it in future?

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