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Whitegrapeandblackberry · 04/04/2020 14:21

We have a DD together and still live in the same house as for obvious reasons it won't sell now, he makes me feel so shit!!
Anything I say In conversation gets turned around, today I told him I didn't want eggs for lunch as I'm saving them incase we can't get more for dd, she has allergies so I'm eating the stuff she can't before I eat the stuff she can - 5 mins later he calls up that my eggs are done, then has a go because I told him I didn't want to use them up etc to which I got oh sorry for doing you a nice lunch!!
He asks my opinion on stuff and then makes me feel like I'm wrong, he makes me feel very below him, he also makes me feel like a bad parent because today I have come upstairs to sort all of DD clothes out she has way too many!! Whilst he plays with her, he is at work all week so we agreed when we split that he will spend Saturdays with her when I move out yet he makes out I'm neglected them both or like I'm not Interested, truth be told I'm fed up of being mocked and put down by him that I'd rather stay out of his way!! Not sure what my aibu is I just wanted to rant!! Xx

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Whitegrapeandblackberry · 04/04/2020 14:28

Should add that If I'm on the phone he's always calling me and then starts saying " mummy mummy " as if DD is calling xx

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Cherrysoup · 04/04/2020 14:38

Why don’t you tell him to fuck right off? Obviously out of dd’s hearing! He sounds like he has been a manipulative abuser and gaslighting you’re. Wanker.

Whitegrapeandblackberry · 04/04/2020 15:02

I have many times told him it's over and that he doesn't need to interact with me unless it's regarding DD, he quite often lays in my bed wit DD when I'm in the bath ( we co sleep ) and when asked to leave he does the whole offended " oh thought we could watch TV together you might actually enjoy yourself "
His mum causes issues and he sees nothing wrong with it, but will sometimes say that she is being a twat but doesn't do anything about it!! He's very arrogant too
I feel so trapped xx

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