Conversation with OH led on to the fact that we've not been out for dinner together since before the children were born 7 yrs ago.
It was my birthday last month and I had no card or present. (Normal)
I had booked us a weekend away (with children of course because I wanted to be with them) - I organised and paid for it.
Last year we had one evening out together when I bought us theatre tickets (he hates the theatre but kindly obliged as I really wanted to go).
We had three days away together last year as our family holiday. He struggles to get away because of his job.
I took the children away for 5 short holidays/ weekends away on my own. Again completely normal.
If I raised this with him he'd blame me (everything is always my fault) he'd say I was moaning at him.
He makes no effort to be attractive to me, I try and take some pride in myself and my appearance.
I'm the main breadwinner and my hard work affords is a very nice life with no money worries.he also works hard but it's more a lifestyle career.
I long for an evening not spent looking at our respective phones - I try and make conversation but it fades to nothing. We've not been to bed at the same time for years.
AIBU to want more from a life partner?