I've had a temperature and she told me to take my temperature every day and email it to her. I did not do that because I suspected she might be re deployed to care for C19 patients.
Until you are told that this has happened, assume that your nurse is still deployed to care for you.
Yet this morning she was phoning me 3 times and left me messages on my landline and my mobile saying "where is your email with your temperature readings" etc. I just don't understand why - is she twiddling her thumbs?
She is not idle, she is doing her best to provide care to you and her ofher patients.
I really don't want to waste her time.
Yet you have, because she's been forced to chase you.
It is so confusing trying to second guess what the NHS is doing
Don't second guess. That's the mistake you've made.
I really am not confident I will get it right; nor that between now and 12 April at some unknown time I will not get absolute radio silence phone wise from all NHS staff I have had contact with.
"absolute radio silence" This is not the film 28 Days Later! The NHS continues to have a duty of care to all its patients and will do its utmost to deliver care to all who need it. The reason why the Govt are bringing in armed forces medics, asking laid-off airline cabin crews to work in hospitals (this makes more sense than you think as "trolley dollies" are all first aiders and trained to be good with stressed people and stay calm in a crisis), etc is so that vulnerable patients like yourself will still get the care you need from your usual specialists.
tl;dr: the best way you can help our NHS now is to do as your nurse asks.