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Anxiety Around Covid-19

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Aliciax · 30/03/2020 23:12

Hi everyone!!

I don't actually have a child, but I live with my best friend and her baby. I work for the NHS & I suffer with anxiety. Working helps my anxiety usually as I have a distraction. I work in the mental health sector so I can relate to the patients.

When I go to work, I put on this brave face for the patients. We have procedures in place, an isolation unit incase a patient gets symptoms of Covid-19 or gets tested positive. We have some PPE and are being given training.

However I'm terrified daily of fetching things home to the baby. The minute I get home I go straight in the shower and wash my clothes instantly. My hands are so sore and cracked from washing them constantly.

There isn't much more I can possibly do, but I'm racked with anxiety of coming down with symptoms and being ill myself and then accidentally passing them to the baby. Everytime I walk home from work, I keep seeing groups of people hanging around or people spitting on the floor. I have to keep telling myself in my head that I'm okay and I have no symptoms. My mum is my biggest support system and everytime I see her, my anxiety just goes instantly (I'm only 20, but age doesn't matter, you'll always need your momma!) But because I don't live in the same house as her, I'm missing her so much and getting sad alot knowing it'll be even longer until I can see her.

Is anyone else feeling massively anxious over this? What are some things people are doing to take their mind off of the anxious thoughts?

Thank you all x

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Fishfingersandwichplease · 30/03/2020 23:16

Oh you poor thing. I am usually very chilled about things but even l have bailed out of working at my shop job as l want to safeguard my family so totally understand your fears. Think everyone is so on edge at the moment especially if you already suffer with anxiety. Have you asked your friend if she is comfortable with you coming home after work? Can you keep your distance from the baby? Is the baby mobile so this is doable?

Aliciax · 30/03/2020 23:20

@Fishfingersandwichplease

She says she's completely fine with it! She locks the baby in the front room until I've showered and put my work clothes in the wash and washed my hands thoroughly. I bought a load of clinell wipes online and I've wiped down every door handle, surface, table I can possibly wipe daily that we've touched. The baby is running about all over the place now, so it's even more difficult. It's such a horrible time right now for everyone! I hope you and your family are safe!! X

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