Me and ex split about 2 months ago due to me finding out he had being doing cocaine, about a week ago we had a chat about how hes sorting himself out, hes cut himself off from the friends that were also doing it and that he wants his family back (have 2 children, both under 4).
I thought he was a changed man, and things had be fine for the short week lol. Yesterday afternoon after a nice family day (not much choice with the lockdown!) I found out he was on coke! In our home, around the kids! He was going out to his van for fags as he had had a few drinks and smokes when hes been drinking, and in the end I figured out he'd been doing it. I denied at first, I then went on his phone and see he had called x friend twice during the time he had gone to the "shops" but came back empty handed, and then looked at his banking and saw he made a withdrawal at a cash machine of the amount you'd need for coke.
Straight away I tell him to leave, that there's no more chances, and that hes taken the absolute piss. I get called every name under the sun, followed by I'm really sorry I need help please I just want you and my family, to you're going to regret this I'll kill myself then the girls wont have their dad because of you...
Hes saying I am being unreasonable because no one else is going to put him up during this lockdown, that he only did it as he had been drinking and that he will stop drinking all together. He keeps asking what exactly it is hes done wrong, it's not like hes cheated on me...He hasn't got parents, his sister isn't local and is staying with her friend, so tbh I'm not sure where he can go but I don't want him here around me and the kids! Hes saying he needs help, that I need to help him. I tried to have him home again but already hes broken my trust, and he had the nerve to do it around me and the kids!